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...See more I broke up with my boyfriend for a variety of reasons - he didn't listen, he didn't take interest in what I talked about, he was selfish, he tried to force me to hang out with his friends all the time even though I am shy and wasn't comfortable. I regretted almost immediately though...he can't decide if he wants to be back with me since I hurt him by breaking up. Literally one night he will say he wants to sit down and talks things out and the next day he will call and say never mind. He's hurt because I broke it off right before our vacation. I didn't want to go on vacation with him and spend all kinds of money when we had been arguing and it looked so not promising for the future. This has been going on for a few weeks....I finally blocked his number because its ridiculous. Everytime I start to get a little stronger, he calls me and I start over at square one with the pain. We were supposed to get together today to talk. Then he called and said no. Five minutes later he wants to come over tomorrow. This is why I blocked him. I can't stop thinking about the good things...but trust me there were bad things. He made a comment about my weight before. He was criticizing how introverted I am with his friends and said he "would be watching me" during our next interaction. He wouldn't do anything for me in bed - him only. And he prefers to talk about himself only and his eyes glaze over when I talk to him. He COULD be sweet and there are things I will miss and I feel like I"m going to die alone :( I'm so scared and hysterical right now. I don't know if I can make it alone....

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