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Julietlovesu415
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PathStep 30 Compassion hearts37 Forum posts332 Forum upvotes264 Current upvotes264 Age GroupAdult Last activeJune, 2019 Member sinceMay 2, 2017
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Meth addiction
Alcohol & Drug Addiction Support / by Julietlovesu415
Last post
 October 23rd, 2025
...See more I dont know what to do anymore. I'm not a drug addict, ive never done any hard core drugs. My boyfriend on the other hand, only God knows whats hes done. Anyway hes been on meth for 5 years, weve been together for almost 2 years. I just found out about 2 months ago that hes on meth. Ive tried to accept it but I cant handle the mood swings on both ends. Top it off with lying and cheating. I know i should of left i looong time ago, I have tried so many times; codependancy gets in the way. Biggest issue is he always comes back and i do not know why, our relationship is horrible. Is there anyone who can explain this to me? Whos been through it.
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Friends with benefits
Relationship Stress / by Julietlovesu415
Last post
 January 17th, 2018
...See more It didnt work out. I'm not closed off enough and he wasn't open enough. He was also juggling however many other women and obviously likes one more than the rest of us. He made it too complicated, I was/am too emotional. It was so bad that he wouldn't let me tell him I missed him. Like he would make me feel bad about it. He's horrible with communication so I stopped talking to him. Its really hard to let go of the sex because the sex was AMAZING but the emotional issues on both ends really got in the way. If we could go back to being friends of like that, and I did tell him that but he I guess didnt read that part of the text or whatever. I'm bummed but he keeps himself too busy to notice. One day he will be sitting in his shed working with his 3D printer and he will miss me. Or he will be with one of his friends that bothers him and wish it were me instead.
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S&M?
Relationship Stress / by Julietlovesu415
Last post
 January 13th, 2018
...See more I for some reason like physical abuse and the guy I'm currently having sex with has a fire inside of him that I just want him to let out. He doesn't like hitting women but he can now see the appeal of it, he's just afraid if hurting me. Last night (12/26/2017)he told me that he is trying to be a little more forceful but it will take some time to get use to it. It was hot to hear him talk about it. About an hour later he asked me if we needed a safe word which I thought was funny because I thought the same thing the day before. However I can take quite a bit of physical pain so I personally don't feel we need one, but it could be a good idea just in case. Is there anyway I can ease him into a little faster? Without telling him how much I enjoy anger?
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i brought it up
Relationship Stress / by Julietlovesu415
Last post
 June 14th, 2018
...See more I talked to the guy im seeing, or whatever you want to call him; friends with benefits, about what had happened with the other girl, how he doesn't mention her to me nor me to her. He went quite so now im not sure what to do. Space doesn't seem to go well for us just due to the fact that this all happened while we were taking some space. I dont know, its just a really weird, awkward situation and where I use to be able to be straight forward with guys about this kind of stuff I just can't anymore. And the strange thing is whenever he gets upset with me he get upset over me not giving him blow jobs. Like thats his only issue with me is that I wont give him a blow job. To me thats just a weird thing to get upset over. He doesnt get upset when im jealous or paranoid or mad at him. Or at least if he does thats the only thing he brings up is bjs and how i dont give them to him.
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