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Justin1998
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Feeling of pain and fear of being alone without a girlfriend
Depression Support / by Justin1998
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 June 27th, 2018
...See more Hey all, I am new here and I have been suppressing this feeling in me for a few years now and decided to open up to here instead, so as to not make my family/friends feel burdened by my problems Just a little background of myself, I am currently a 19 year old with no girlfriend and have been longing for one. I know I am still young but as someone from Singapore, all males have to serve the military for 2 years by the end of their teriary educations. Meaning I will be 22 and still lonely by the time I am done with it. I have been rejected twice before and right now I have a crush on a girl. Usually when you fall in love it's suppose to be a happy feeling right? However I feel really afraid that I will be rejected and because of that it pains my heart intensely. I feel that I am not good enough for her but I still wanna do my best to improve myself, but the idea of me getting rejected really sucks. I have confidence issues and thus am afraid that I will be dull and boring so I tend not to talk much since it's better to be quiet than to bore someone out. I have read a lot of stuff that confidence is attractive but I am not a very good conversation starter. I am really lost and I do not know what to do. All I know is this: That I promise to love and be faithful to the girl that I end up with forever. But will anyone accept a guy that is dull? I am trying very hard to change but it's really painful and lonely. Thank you for taking the time to read this post, may your day be blessed! :)
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