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KNZI
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Feeling Alone and Unwanted
Relationship Stress / by KNZI
Last post
 August 23rd, 2022
...See more Lately, all I’ve been met with is loneliness and the feeling that I don’t have anyone to talk to around me. Currently I’m going through a breakup, as my long term boyfriend ended things with me out of nowhere. He was my best friend and at the end he was extremely insensitive and cruel to me, which I never saw coming. It’s been really hard without having him here because of how close we were and with how he ended things with me. Then some other people close to me reached out and I was feeling better because I could vent and confide in them. A short while later, I got into an argument with one of those people and they decided to throw everything I said and vented about back in my face and entirely invalidated how I was feeling about being broken up with, as well as making fun of my hurt and upset emotions. Not too soon after that another one of them told me I should move on and acted like I was being unreasonable for being devastated over this breakup. I don’t have anyone else to confide in and I feel like no one wants me around. When I’m happy and in a good mood it’s fine but because I’ve been so sad, hurt, and heartbroken, those feelings are invalid and no one around me wants to deal with it (even though the breakup was very very recent). I’m honestly just really sick of everyone making me feel crazy for having emotions about something so important to me. Anyone who’s ever gone through a serious breakup, on top of that a horribly ending one, would understand that it’s normal to not “be okay” right after and that it takes some time to feel better again. I don’t want to feel alone anymore about it and I feel like everyone who I thought would be there to lend some support or even an ear just to chat about it only cared about the drama and voicing their opinions about it, rather than just being there for me.
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