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Kvanhee
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I need help coping with a manipulative friend
Relationship Stress / by Kvanhee
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 December 30th, 2018
...See more Hi all, I'm dealing with an extremely stressful time in my life. It has been a really hard year. My best friend and roommate was diagnosed with breast cancer. While she was dealing with this she was in an on-again off-again relationship that is extremely tumultuous, all she's done for the past 10 months is complain about him, for various reasons and in great detail. (More detail than most people share with even their therapist) Anyway, he wanted to move in with us when we suddenly discovered he had a crippling debt, I had to veto that to protect our financial situation and our shared living space. They broke up shortly after because he had lied to her about it too, so when she told me she was thinking about getting back together with him again I told her she should trust her heart. But I told her that I wouldn't be involved, I didn't need to know every detail of their relationship and I wasn't keen on being around him. When my grandfather died in September is when she started seeing him again and since then she's been rude and distant to me and our friends. She doesn't seem to care that I'm grieving. She keeps forcing us into situations with him even though we've asked her to respect our space, meanwhile she ignores any issues we might be going through, she's mean and vindictive. She has already cut ties with all our other friends but I live with her and we've been friends for 5 years... Do I just throw all that away?
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