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Kw777
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Long distance relationship: Need advice how to move on
Relationship Stress / by Kw777
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 August 4th, 2016
...See more Well, about a week ago, my long distance girlfriend of about nearly two years had broken up with me. We have been frienda for 4 years, texting each other every single day. I thought we would be in each other's lives forever, but that changed pretty quick. Over the past 6 months, she gave me the ultimatum that if I did not move down there, she would break up with me. At first I loved the idea of being with her more, since we only been together physically for a span of 4 weeks from all the visits. I missed her and during college, it felt really lonely. I told my parents but not about the ultimatum. They told me all of the costs and if I was unable to get into a college, since they are the ones signing for loans. All of those bills would put me in a big predicament. Each time we talked between my family and I, there would be arguments. And then there would be argumen's between me and my now ex. She gave me a date to be there by and soon I told my family about the ultimatum near the date. I told her it felt controlling and wrong what she did and she broke up with me on the spot. I promised her I'd be there and I understand I did lie. She didn't block me right away, but posted a ton about being single and how she has no time for liars in her life. She even posted how much she loved being single. Her mom talked to me but got angry that I had a different opinion than her and said "good luck being alone or divorced 20 times because you're a liar." Now I'm blocked.
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