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Break up, text her or not?
Relationship Stress / by L0r3nZ0
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 July 26th, 2023
...See more I know there are always two face of the medal, but I’ll try to be the more objective I can. I was a student 2 month ago and basically in February 2023 I told a lie to my (ex)girlfriend. I told her I had 4 exams left to my graduation, instead of 6. I know lying is always wrong regardless, but I was embarass for my situation and I explained it to her. I’ve never told her any other lie, and during our 8 years relationship I know for sure that I’ve always been a good boyfriend, not perfect obviously…but good. I do not want to make this thread too long, but we were a happy unconventional couple together. Until last month, when we were speaking about our schools and I told her my lie because I could not take it anymore. But she is convinced that she has “cornered me” also if that’s not true because I could continue to lie her anyway. She does not tolerate lies, and I understand that but I think also that she’s a bit hypocritical about that because I’m sure she also lied to me (but I moved on that, also if I’m aware of it). For this reason, my lie, she broke up with me last month. Now I decided to speak with someone, more objective than me, and I just want to know what you think about it. Is it a valid reason to break up? I’m also a bit angry with her because she turned her back to me when she always sad that she would never, but I also miss her and I’m not sure if I want to make a contact again with her. Any advice?
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