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LasagnaAtWork
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My girlfriend wants to stop having sex altogether
Relationship Stress / by LasagnaAtWork
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September 18th, 2019
...See more My girlfriend is asexual, something I knew about her from the beginning. As she had described it to me, she feels no sexual attraction to others and is not a big fan of sex, but she does receive pleasure in pleasuring others. I was single for a very long time, and despite my high sex drive, had only had sex twice in my life before, long before her and I were together. She was a good friend who confessed her feelings when I was in a very dark place, ending a decade of loneliness and solitude. She healed my wounds with her care, her kindness, her love, and an intimacy I had never known. Our sex was beautiful, and it was fun. She was experienced and was happy to help and guide and explore with me. She wanted to help with some fetishes and fantasies, and I did the same. We went to sex shops together at her suggestion and bought some things. She even wanted to start making videos to help pay the bills while exploring together. She had never experienced orgasm before and said she felt I could do it for herr. I was excited. I'm a very overweight man who never felt attractive. Suddenly I felt desirable. She was so loving and caring and good to me. The sex was an amazing bonus I never expected. Then over the last month everything changed. Like her sexuality shifted. She no longer feels pleasure giving others pleasure. She wants it less and less, but still wants to make me happy, so she does it for me. But I just feel bad. Like I'm using her. (Con)
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