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LavenderGoddess
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Mental Health Advocate šŸ’• Suffer from Anxiety, Depression and PTSD šŸ™ƒ Animal Lover šŸ¾ SDIT (Service Dog in Training) šŸ¶ College Student šŸ‘©ā€šŸŽ“
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Relationship Issues/Effort
Relationship Stress / by LavenderGoddess
Last post
 May 13th, 2021
...See more So this guy Iā€™m dating is 35 and Iā€™m 25. We have similar interests and some friends in common. Weā€™ve been together a little over a year. When the relationship first started we saw each other a lot and hung out. Then he moved in with me and we spend everyday together (unless he was at work or somewhere else)ā€” we obviously took time apart (his for gaming and mine for my hobbies). He moved out and moved away (15 minutes away) and now I only see him once or twice a week if Iā€™m lucky. I canā€™t stand it and it really hurts me and makes me feel lonely. He is perfectly fine with video chatting, texting, etc. until we get to see each other, but thatā€™s not enough for me. I need more. I need a physical connectionā€” time spent together. Tonight I told him I was getting off video chat after several hours on it as I have stuff to do and Iā€™m bored of video chatting and not seeing him. He seemed to take offense and said he wonā€™t bother me anymore tonight, but Iā€™m glad I set a boundary and said what I needed in the relationship. This feels like a long distance relationship without it being a long distance and itā€™s not what I signed up for obviously. I donā€™t mean to sound ungrateful or come off as rudeā€” I love him, but this isnā€™t enough effort.
Struggling to get disability
Disability Support / by LavenderGoddess
Last post
 May 25th, 2021
...See more Hello everyone! I am 24 years old and I live in a small rural town. Due to my age I suppose doctors do not take me seriously. I have health issues and mental health issues, but itā€™s mostly the mental health issues that prevent me from leaving my house (and therefore working). I have PTSD, severe anxiety and severe depression. I have been turned down for disability once even though I had friends, family and my doctor talk about my conditions. Iā€™m starting to feel like I will never get approved. Any advice or similar experiences?
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