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LeeSkull
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Am I being unfair w/ my partner?
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by LeeSkull
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 December 13th, 2021
...See more So to start: my partner and i started dating while I was still questioning if I was ace they knew I was questioning and insisted we just try being sexual but also assured me they’d still love me if I decided not to have sex fast forward we have been intimate but I was still kinda uncomfortable so I expressed I didn’t want to be sexual anymore but my partner insisted saying it was the only way for them to truly express their love for me and without it they’d have no outlet so I caved and we continued being sexual now we’ve been together almost 6 months and planning to move in together we’re still intimate but I still feel a bit unhappy it feels like I’m giving so much of myself while not being properly refilled if that makes sense? Like I’m only doing it so they feel loved but They don’t really do the same for me? There’s no equivalent exchange I’m not sure what to do about it I feel like I should put my foot down about not doing it for them without proper compensation but I also feel that’d be unfair and come off as if I don’t love them?
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