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Lillyischarmed80
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Help!! My partner is emotionally numb
Relationship Stress / by Lillyischarmed80
Last post
 April 14th, 2022
...See more Hello everyone. I'm new to this. Not sure how this is going to work but let's give it a try. So back store. Me n my partner have been together for 15 years.. yeah I know that's a long damn time. We r not married but, we soon will be. We recently have gone through the court system because our relationship has always been rocky. You know a hurricane meets a volcano kinda thing. When it's going good it's GREAT but, when it's going back it's oh so bad. N Ehoo.. he was out of the house from October to December. He came back saying this is what I want, we both need to work on our own issues. It's been going ok kinda smooth sailing.. well.. so I thought. He told me last night that hes started going down the path of feeling numb again. Telling me he's not good enough for me, that he can't be there emotionally for me and give me the "attention" that I deserve. I'm not by far perfect. I'm a survivor or child abuse and we'll that has turned my life upside down. I'm very hard to live with. Very impatient, he says I'm always playing the victim card. I've really been focused on fixing that. I just don't know what to do. I love this man to death. He's my world besides our kids.. I just need help..
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