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Listener789
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Relationship Stress / by Listener789
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 July 5th, 2022
...See more I found out my fiancé has been hiding credit debt for about 2 years of our 4 year relationship. I just bought a home and he was going to move in and help with expenses. He is in school, so he works part time but makes a little money. After finding this out, there’s no way he will be able to help pay bills let alone take care of himself. I feel anger and sadness. Our financial goals are crumbling. I don’t know how to get him out of this. I could pay it off but lose most of my hard earned savings, or let him get a personal loan and pay it off that way. With the personal loan it will take about 5 years to pay off with double the price tag. I hate that this has become my problem and I feel such resentment.
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