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...See more I'm in the middle of a divorce that I didn't have a say in. My wife and I were far from perfect but i love her very deeply. she grew distant from me she didn't want to have sex look at me like I interested her. she constantly pushed me to try to meet other people or meme jokes that I should try to see if someone could satisfy me, and one day I snapped saying "it's like you're trying to make me want a divorce". She twisted and twisted this statement that I made and plagued me with it saying that I wanted it to end. She refused to work it out in therapy and when I did get her to go it's like she didn't care and wasn't trying be open there are issues. I overworked myself and admit that there was a point in time where I wasn't giving her attention and I switched jobs just to make time for her and give her the things not only that she wanted but why I want to give to her too. but everything got so twisted What started out has a great week ended up with her saying that she didn't feel the same for me anymore. in a week I moved out or more so kicked out with my stuff thrown into garbage bags by her. And I can't force her to love me, but I feel like the garbage that she just dragged around and pretended to care about. How long did she hide this from me? and there's so many signs, we had only been married for just over a year and a half, but thinking back she started treating me like this since before we got married. I was just too dumb to notice.

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