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...See more Today would have been a celebration of my boyfriend and I being together for 4 years. However we broke up a few months ago, this was completely his choice and came very out of the blue. We were very happy and had amazing times together we he says too, however he says he isnt ready to commit or love and isnt sure if he ever can. I knew he had issues with trust and fully opening up but I never thought it would come to that as wed always talk about things as if wed always be together. We still talk everyday, some days more often and he still asks what Im doing and how my day has been. He still tells me things happening in his life, we share a few jokes. The other day he told me he still of course has feelings for me and they wouldnt go even in a year but he just doesnt feel ready. Unfortunately his way of coping has always been to isolate himself and push anyway away by making himself over busy, so he hasnt really given himself to think about things or how he can overcome these problems and fears. Its also really difficult as Im still very confused, I understand where he is coming from and have said Ill support him no matter what but Im confused as to whether our relationship is completely closed to him or if its something he would want to pick up again once his read was in the right place. As we had good foundations and the potential to be really strong and happy. What do you guys think?

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