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Lonelyhol20
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Is it time to break up?
Relationship Stress / by Lonelyhol20
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July 30th, 2025
...See more Ive been with my partner for 4 years, weve lived together for 2 and have gone through quite a lot together, for the past year its gone down hill, and its starting to go down hill faster now, we havent had intercourse for at least 4 months, I cant think of anything worse than having intercourse with him, I make excuses when he trys which isnt that often to be fair, another issue is I get angry with him for the slightest thing and Ive found myself not wanting to come home to him and avoiding coming home, I dont know why I am becoming like this, Ive been absolutely horrible to him these past weeks, Ive been angry with him, Ive smashed things up because of the anger, I tend to get angry when he hasnt done the house work or hes not realised Im in a sad mood, hes never done anything romantic, never tells me he loves me, would rather play on his video games, and yes this is before Ive turned horrible and moody we both work full time, I work longer hours than him so hes at home more often than me and I always ask him to make sure the house is clean and tidy, on most of these occasions Ive come home after a 20 hour shift and hes not done anything this is what makes me the most angry Im at my wits end now because I just dont know what to do, its not a nice relationship at the moment, Id rather spend time by myself than with him and I just dont know what to do
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