Is it time to break up?
Ive been with my partner for 4 years, weve lived together for 2 and have gone through quite a lot together, for the past year its gone down hill, and its starting to go down hill faster now, we havent had intercourse for at least 4 months, I cant think of anything worse than having intercourse with him, I make excuses when he trys which isnt that often to be fair, another issue is I get angry with him for the slightest thing and Ive found myself not wanting to come home to him and avoiding coming home, I dont know why I am becoming like this, Ive been absolutely horrible to him these past weeks, Ive been angry with him, Ive smashed things up because of the anger, I tend to get angry when he hasnt done the house work or hes not realised Im in a sad mood, hes never done anything romantic, never tells me he loves me, would rather play on his video games, and yes this is before Ive turned horrible and moody
we both work full time, I work longer hours than him so hes at home more often than me and I always ask him to make sure the house is clean and tidy, on most of these occasions Ive come home after a 20 hour shift and hes not done anything this is what makes me the most angry
Im at my wits end now because I just dont know what to do, its not a nice relationship at the moment, Id rather spend time by myself than with him and I just dont know what to do
@Lonelyhol20 Only you can decide whether it's time to break up or not. You may have drifted apart and this relationship has reached its natural conclusion or it could be a bump that you two could work through. And it still may be a "bump" but you don't want to work through it, which is totally up to you.
Good luck in whatever you decide.
Thank you!@ReadBooksDrinkTea
I have to admit. I can resonate with a lot of what you’ve shared. I literally want to make things better with my husband but I’m sick to my stomach by his video game addiction. I feel more alone when I’m with him. Faced glued to his laptop or phone screen. He drinks and gets belligerent. Blames me for just about any short coming. No empathy. No compassion. Claims he gives me compliments and says he does nice things all the time. That is NOT the case. I feel belittled and like some kind of bothersome roommate. Hates communicating and sex seems like some kind of chore. Even when i implement it. I’m literally contemplating divorce. I think I’m just gonna have to have this talk today. Sadly. Idk if I can take anymore.