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LostInNowhere
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Relationship Stress / by LostInNowhere
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 March 26th, 2023
...See more hello, i want to share my thoughts as i am puzzled. Is moving from " i hate my parents and i wont forgive them for what they did to me " to " they tried their best based on their knowledge and how their was raised , and didn't mean actually to hurt me , they treated me based on their definition of love, and i will just accept that fact " is a bad thing to happen ? i mean,is this a part of healing or grown up or i am just falling apart again and this is some kind of another trauma ? i have a younger sister, and we were raised by the same father and mother but somehow i could manage my truma and heal myself alittle bit by avoiding the hurt and make my own world of healthy connections and not sharing my pain with my parents or even confronting them . but she she is still 20 and she couldnt manage that and she is angry and hates them ,dont want to live with them , feels alot of pain . i can feel her cause i was there someday . but i cant fight them or speak with the same energy she has now , cause "as i think" i moved on !, and she sometimes mistaken this as i dont get her or i dont understand her . how to deal with that ?
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