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Relationship Stress / by MM2009pv
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 August 29th, 2025
...See more I recently found out that my girlfriend cheated on me with another girl two years ago. I feel like maybe I'm exaggerating because it was just a kiss, or so they're making it seem... she threw herself at the other girl and kissed her, a quick kiss. They sent me the video recently and it was really hard to watch... the girl who revealed the video was also involved. My girlfriend seemed quite remorseful. We talked about it for hours, and even though it hurts and I'm suspicious, I'm letting it go. The problem is that my girlfriend is going to report the girl who revealed the video, and my friends, my best friends, are on the side of the girl who revealed the video. They're telling me that my girlfriend is manipulating me, sweetening me up, that she doesn't want to lose me. And my girlfriend seems genuinely remorseful. I don't know if I believe she's manipulating me or not, but I have to choose a side, and whichever side I choose, no matter what, will make me look like the bad guy. If I choose my girlfriend, my friends will hate me. If I choose my friends, I'll lose the person I love the most. I love her on the face of the earth... it's been two years with her, I've poured my whole being out to her, my mom loves her and my grandmother too, i dont know what to do... Update: my two friends moved away today and... well I lost them, my girlfriend promised me and we talked for hours... I'm afraid of being alone, of losing everything, I'm thinking so many things and I don't want to relapse again... I'm thinking about things that aren't necessarily good and I don't know what to do...
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No se que hacer....
Relationship Stress / by MM2009pv
Last post
 August 28th, 2025
...See more Hace poco me enteré que mi novia me fue infiel con otra chica hace dos años, siento que tal vez lo exagere porque fue solo un beso o así me lo están haciendo ver... ella se lanzó sobre la otra chica y le clavo un beso, un beso rápido, me enviaron el video hace poco y fue muy fuerte verlo... la chica que reveló el video fue participe también, mi novia se mostró bastante arrepentida, hablamos del tema por horas y aunque me duele y desconfíe, lo estoy dejando pasar, el problema es que mi novia va a denunciar a la chica que reveló el video y mis amigos, mis mejores amigos están del lado de la chica que reveló el video, ellos me están diciendo que mi novia me esta manipulando me esta endulzando, que no me quiere perder, y mi novia realmente se muestra arrepentida, no se si creer que me esta manipulando o no pero debo elegir un lado y el lado que elija sin importar me va a hacer quedar como el malo, si elijo a mi novia, mis amigos me odiaran, si elijo a mis amigos, perderé a la persona que mas amo sobre la faz de la tierra... han sido dos años con ella, le abrí todo mi ser a ella, mi mamá la ama y mi abuela también, y no se que hacer... que hago?
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