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...See more Hey everybody! I have just gone thru a rough breakup and have no one to talk to. We were together for a year. I unfortunately was not able to return to the university we met at this fall but I am returning in the Spring. We agreed to try and make the temporary 2 hr distance work but it all just fell apart. I was afraid it would from the day I told him I wouldn't be moving back in August. We now both had classes and I was working so we're busy but made time to talk every day. I had asked off a weekend to go visit him for our 1 year anniversary and just days before I was supposed to leave, he was interviewed, hired, trained and got a job but didn't tell them that I was coming because he wanted to work. I was there 3 days, all I asked was to see him 1 day because I hadn't in 2 months. It got.into arguing and I was so hurt and mad. We were friends 6 months before we became official. We had always been able to communicate and for some reason in the last 2 months we just cant anymore. He dumped me on our anniversary over snapchat. Its been a month and he wants to remain friends, but I dont know if I can. I am so mad, confused and hurt. It was a first relationship for us both he doesnt seemed to be effected to hurting by any of it. We had been friends and in each other's lives every single day for a year and a half and as soon as it got hard he left. I feel used and blindsided. I dont know how he can just act like it all never happened and expect me to just act like I'm fine.

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