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MandiMoxxi
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I feel unattractive...
Relationship Stress / by MandiMoxxi
Last post
 April 27th, 2016
...See more When my boyfriend and I first got together, sex wasn't a problem. But after a few months, I notice it was getting to be a week...two weeks between. And now I was starting to ask for it. After waiting up to three weeks before trying to make a sexual move on him, I started getting called pathetic and desperate. New record: 10 weeks. What broke that was being gone for a week on a business training trip. Now we're back at 2 and 1/2 weeks. I stopped taking my birth control while on that trip because I realized I was changing my chemical balance and hormones for someone who doesn't even want to have sex with me. And we do use condoms. I haven't told him yet (I'm not trying to trap him...I just don't know how to bring it up). I want to plan a family in the next year or two. He doesn't want kids for another 8 years. And I'm not ok with that and I've told him that. His whole look on anything sexual has changed. I feel very unattractive...
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I don't know what to do!
Relationship Stress / by MandiMoxxi
Last post
 April 25th, 2016
...See more My boyfriend and I met 8 years ago on Call of Duty. We weren't together all 8 years and we finally met in person July 3, 2015. I moved 1800 miles to be with him that August. The relationship was perfect at the beginning. Same life goals, giving me the attention I wanted and deserved. Then it's like a switch flipped. He focuses more on gaming now than before. I knew he loved his video games (and I do too, but I know what to put the controller down)...but I feel like he chooses the games over me. He's no longer supportive and we don't really talk as much. I tried talking to him one day when my depression was getting to me and all he wanted to talk about was the game he was playing. So I went into the bedroom amd just cried it out until I fell asleep. I love him, but I'm no longer happy. And being so far away from home, I don't know what to do. It feels like we are more roommates than anything. He told me I have to ask for his attention. I know in my head what I need to do, but I just can't get my heart to that point. But I do know that I'm not happy anymore.
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