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Matt3133
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PathStep 3 Compassion hearts64 Forum posts8 Forum upvotes12 Current upvotes12 Age GroupAdult Last activeMay, 2023 Member sinceNovember 26, 2017
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I don’t know if I’m good enough or not in dating.
Relationship Stress / by Matt3133
Last post
 June 2nd, 2023
...See more I’m a 25 year old who still lives with my parents. I graduated in 2021. I’ve been trying to find an apartment but it’s hard to find an affordable place especially with a car payment and student loans starting back up again soon. I met a girl off a dating app a couple of weeks ago and we have been on two dates. We kissed after the second date. My problem is that I’m afraid I’m not good enough for her since she has her own place and I still don’t have my own place yet. I’ve just been rejected in the past even though I thought things were going well. I’m also recovering from nerve issues in my arms so I’m not as fit as I was. I don’t know if I’m overthinking about it or if I need to do better. I’m just tired of being rejected.
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She's too busy to date
Relationship Stress / by Matt3133
Last post
 March 22nd, 2020
...See more I've been dating a girl for a month but then the coronavirus shut down my college. She's a senior and I'm a junior. I said I wanted to make it work and I could drive up to see her. She said she is stressed out about finding a job and is sad that her graduation is cancelled. The thing that is killing me is that she said she liked me, she is just worried about everything. We still keep in touch and she is really sad about the whole thing. I may get an internship near where she lives over the summer. Should I still keep in touch with her and hope we can try again or just let her go and not talk to her?
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Should I still try for her.
Relationship Stress / by Matt3133
Last post
 May 17th, 2020
...See more I met a girl on tinder. We have a lot in common and I deleted the app after the second date. We've been on three dates and we kissed after the third. I asked her if she wanted to go out again after spring break but she said she will be busy with her club but she would let me know if she can. She is a senior and I'm a junior. I'm just afraid of getting my hopes up again.
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