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Ex sends text months later saying "I did want to tell you a few things I never gave myself the chance to..."
Relationship Stress / by MayMatthew1216
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 August 17th, 2017
...See more Hey guys, so my ex fiance and boyfriend of nearly 7 years broke up with me this january out of the blue after returning from a snowboarding trip in CO. He decided to break up with me over text message, and moved out a week later. This break up was so out of the blue that all my friends and family wondered what happened to him for there to be such a sudden end, with no closure, answers or discussions about the reason for breaking up. I've been busy trying to finish nursing school and decided it was best for my mental health to cut off contact from/to him and truly move on with my life, and while its been hard I've done it, and I'm finally happy again. Then yesterday out of nowhere he sends me the following text message after 8 months of zero contact with him. "Hey May--Do you have time to talk this week? Not that it means much as this point but I did want to tell you a few things I never gave myself the chance to.... Hope nursing school is going well and everything else with the family. Also, if you dont want to I completely understand...thats more than fair." Soo.. what do you guys think? I really truly have no idea what things he wants to tell me that he "never gave himself the chance to." And im worried, but is it worth it to respond back, or should I leave this be?
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