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Ended up with anxiety
Anxiety Support / by Mendy2415
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 August 31st
...See more PSA: i already made a thread venting in the same exact way,I just need an immediate answers😭. I’m dealing with something with my sister and it’s been giving me a lot of anxiety. I’m not really sure how to handle it, and I mostly just need someone to talk to about it. Basically, there’s this guy she used to talk to. They aren’t together, but she has become convinced that he’s stalking or monitoring her. At first, I didn’t really know what to think. But then she started connecting different things to him. For example, she believes that songs he puts on his YouTube Music playlist are actually messages meant for her. She’ll look at certain songs or things online and interpret them as him trying to communicate with her indirectly. It’s also become religious. She believes God is giving her information or confirmation that this guy is stalking her. She’ll interpret certain things that happen as signs from God confirming what she already believes. There’s also a woman on social media who sells a book. From what I can see, the account looks like a normal real person and I haven’t noticed anything obviously fake about it. But my friend believes that the woman isn’t actually who she says she is and is secretly the guy pretending to be a woman so he can get closer to her and stalk her. She has also talked about contacting the guy because of all of this, which worries me because I don’t want the situation to escalate. All of these things together have made me concerned that she might be experiencing some kind of paranoia, delusional thinking, or possibly psychosis, although obviously I can’t diagnose her. My uncle is supposed to come next weekend to try to help her and hopefully get her professional help. In the meantime, I’ve been extremely anxious about everything. I feel like I’m constantly thinking about what she’s saying and worrying about what might happen. I care about her and want her to be okay, but I also don’t really know what I’m supposed to do or how to deal with my own anxiety while this is happening.
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