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MikeRavo
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Dealing with divorce
Relationship Stress / by MikeRavo
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 April 5th, 2018
...See more Hi everyone. First of all I apologise if this is in the wrong place. I am currently going through a divorce which is entirely my own doing. After 2 years of a completely sexless marriage and arguing almost every day I went on the internet searching for peoole with whom I could commit adultery. It all blew up in my face, my wife was told about it by the other woman and now here we are. The problem is this. I am in a relationship with someone now and am happy, I recently found out she is in a relationship too and it is absolutely killing me. Whenever I am alone all I want to do is get in touch with her and try to reconcile, only because I dont want her to be with anybody else. I understand how hypocritical it is and that it is all my own fault but what can I do about this feeling? Divorce is definitely the right course of action, as I said, absolutely no sex, arguments every day almost without fail. A happily married man would not go actively searching for an affair would he? Any help would be appreciated. Feel free to judge too, I know Ive done a horrible thing.
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