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Husband’s addictive pornography
Addiction Support / by Monsoon1310
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 November 10th, 2025
...See more Hi, I found my husband looking into porn before we were engaged for a year and I ignored it, afterwards I started sending photos of myself for him to stop looking into other girls but after we got engaged before our wedding I found out he likes to look at other girls pictures and so I confronted him, he of course cried and kept apologizing that he won’t do it again. And so, there were sign that he didn’t even stop after our marriage, confronting him again, he deleted *** which is the main source and found that he was paying a subscription for a girls account who posts pictures of herself half naked. Anyways, I gave another chance and he was looking at other girls while I was with him, just gazing at their junk or whatever. I warned him. and recently I opened his *** and found that a lot of porn reels coming up and I confronted him and I know he watches this again. He kept denying, Cuz I didn’t give an actual proof that he is currently watching, every time I needed to confront I will just need a proof. Till a few days ago, I saw him waiting in a parking lot and asked for his phone and found that he sends to an AI to send him pictures. I‘m so frustrated and angry, I feel like I can’t go on and forgive him over and over again. I tried being more intimate but now I can’t and I feel disgusted each time I look at him. He went to a therapist and asked to stay close to me for the next 2 weeks as he only do this when he’s alone and keep himself occupied to not think and give up. If it didn’t help, he will take some medications. I am not sure if I am in the right place to give any other chances, as I have chronic depression and I am currently struggling with what am i supposed to do with him. Should I leave him or should I stay and give a last chance! I love him and he was my hope to continue living and now everything collapsed.
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