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Unsure and feeling lost
Relationship Stress / by Morgan4185
Last post
 February 8th, 2019
...See more Situation is boyfriend for 1.5 years ... Have been through rough times... He cheated and also has been caucaught in lies and doing things that would end most relationships.... Problem is I love him and don't want to be alone. I moved 3 hours away for a job and we broke up about 3.5 weeks after and during that time I met someone online...didn't think anything of it and one day he texted me that he was getting back together with his ex girlfriend... I said ok cool good luck and we didn't speak at all for 4 months...and around that same time my boyfriend and I reconciled as well. We've been together ever since and a few weeks ago the online guy just suddenly messaged me. He said he made a mistake going back to his ex and that she was no good for him and his 1st thought was to contact me and that he never should have stopped talking to me .... We met up twice to talk and he texts me and we seem to get along awesome and have a ton in common ... However I do love my boyfriend and I'm not sure if I feel an attraction to this other guy because my boyfriend is far away and we don't see each other like before or if it's real. There's a lot of things that stand in the way of being happy for my boyfriend and I He has financial struggles, a controlling ex wife who dictates his schedule with his kids and he lives 3.5 hours away and also cannot have anymore children due to vasectomy which is something I've wanted for a while now.I'm confused and lost. And there's more to tell. Help
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Relationship Stress / by Morgan4185
Last post
 January 16th, 2019
...See more My boyfriend has hurt me previously... He has had interactions with someone from a past relationship. Things have been mostly great since that incident, however my trust was broken and I don't know if I can or will get it back. Yesterday he blocked an ex girlfriend on social media because "there's history there" and he "doesn't want to see her picture". He claims he has no feelings for her and it's been almost 2 years since they were together .. But my question and concern is then why would her popping up bother him? I feel he blocked her so he wouldn't be tempted to contact her ... He did mention it was a heartbreak for him then, even though it was only a 3 month relationship. He has continually told me he loves me and only me and that I'm his best friend and wants to be with me.... However, I can't help but worry and whenever I question anything he just gets quiet like he has no response to give. He is bad with communication in general, has a hard time discussing feelings or getting the right words out... All in all I love him with all my heart and we've spent 1 yr and a half together and our kids have been with each other and love playing and I'm close to his family...i just know I don't deserve to be hurt or lied to and I am almost 34, divorced from a 12 yr marriage with 2 kids and I don't want to start over several times. I just want to be happy and respected and loved. I need advice. I don't want to lose him but I don't want to be hurt either.
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