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Muffinss646
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Bf Wants me to stop...
Relationship Stress / by Muffinss646
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 March 28th, 2019
...See more Hi, my bf and I have been together for almost 3yrs and we are also long distance. Weve done things a few times but we often have to result to masturbating together virtually. We both enjoy what fun we can have together while being away for the time being, but there are times where Hes not around or wants to sleep and Im stressed. I dont want to feel bad about doing that by myself watching porn or not watching porn. Either way he feels insecure about it, which I can understand. Why are you watching them if Im here, and when Im not here why cant you wait? But often times that means at least 12hrs until then because we have very different schedules. Maybe this wouldnt be so bad if I hadnt started masterbating when I was single before him, but I did because its my body, but I also dont want to hurt my bf when I keep making promises that I wont do it. I guess the main issue is that, it wouldnt be a problem if he could do it fully on his own, but the thing is it would take him twice as long, he says and hed rather just wait for me. Idk if I just have a higher sex drive at times but its putting a great strain on the trust in our relationship. Does anyone have any ideas on what we should do?
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