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NessaNova
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my names vanessa i’m 22 and i have been struggling a lot recently but my goal is to change that. i’ve been struggling with anxiety and depression for as long as i can remember. im stressed about what i wanna do with my life and just need to figure it out.

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cheated on my kinda long distance boyfriend
Relationship Stress / by NessaNova
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 January 8th, 2025
...See more okay so i know it sounds really bad but he cheated on me about 6 months ago and i wanted to end it and he said that we can work it out if i give it time well i gave it plenty of time and i still feel betrayed and heart broken. i’ve been wanting to break up with and i’ve tried many times but he just manipulates me into staying with him and i don’t just wanna do it over text i want to do it in person. but he’s making it very difficult. anyways i hooked up with this guy off *** when i was drunk and it was amazing like the best sex i’ve ever had and i’ve been talking to him for about a month now and i kinda have feelings for him but i really don’t want to jump into another relationship so we’re keeping it casual but im not with anyone else and he’s not with anyone else because we aren’t using condoms (i’m on birth control). i just need advice should i break up with my boyfriend over text and just end it now or should i break up with him in person and risk being manipulated again. i’m just so lost right now and have no clue what im doing. i’ve mentally checked out of my relationship so long ago i don’t even know if i have feelings for him anymore but i really don’t wanna hurt him. he hurt me tho a lot.
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