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...See more Hi, I am over 40, male and married for 5 years. The past 3 relationships, after 2-3 years in I have less and less libido and after some time the ladies break up with me. The last one( my wife) hasn't yet. In this relationship it happened this way. After I lost my job last year, I started to get more depressed and my libido started to go down. I dont have a need to do anything actually. I am isolating myself since last year. They way we live now in quarantine, I've been living since last year :/ My wife would like to have sex but she stopped asking for it. I watch porn some times a month and masturbate but I never take initiative. I feel I waited to long and now it feels strange for me to take initiative for sex with her. Its like I am feeling afraid that if I do take initiative, I will not be able to perform. Since they other two broke up with me becouse of this, I am afraid it will happen again. I am afraid to talk to her about it. That my talk will be the start of her going away. i have no confidance in me when it comes to sex or finding a job :/ At the same time, she is talking of having kids and (she has tried talking to me before) but I am afraid of having kids and then beeing left behind and be an away father. Its a lot of things I am beeing afraid of mixed with a depresiona and I dont know how to fix this... I have been talking to a psycologist even in the previous relationships but they still ended. Thank you for reading this far

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