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hello, i hope you are doing great! hopefully we can chat sometime soon, best regards and well wishes! have a great day! - NewYorker11
Number of ratings65 Number of reviews49 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceMay 9, 2022 Last activein last week GenderMale PathStep 374 People helped373 Chats1,160 Group support chats86 Listener group chats357 Forum posts1,608 Forum upvotes2,141
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hello, this is NewYorker11, i enjoy chatting with members and listeners here on 7 Cups,  i am hoping that i can take your chat sometime soon! best regards, well wishes and have a wonderful day!





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PERSEVERANCE - The Ability To Extend Your Best Effort To The World
IDG 7 Cups Hub / by NewYorker11
Last post
 June 28th, 2025
...See more PERSEVERANCE - The Ability To Extend Your Best Effort To The World the ability to persevere in life - a great tactical ability in the character of one's own self, personality and identity. some people are just more well adjusted than others. i believe that the difference of perseverance from person to person depends upon many variances and instances of life situations and experiences. THE THRESHOLD QUESTIONNAIRE 1) what is your threshold for stressful situations? 2) what is your threshold for decision making on the fly? 3) what is your threshold for staying grounded and mindful, even in the most tedious of situations? 4) what is your threshold for being patient, and/or having patience, no matter the situation in question? 5) what is your threshold for an emotional situation that puts you in the seat of giving others moral support that otherwise would not have been there for those people in question? personally, i have a take on perseverance that most people would not comprehend, they would just have to think like i do. in order to persevere in any situation and light or dark of thought and query, i think that any person who is presented with spontaneity in adjusting on the fly, has to know how to be self-composed so that they can cater to others. if you cannot take care of yourself first, then you cannot cater to others and/or help other people. this just cannot be. you as the persevered will be the one to guide people in emotional distress to a time of better composure.   THE PERSEVERANCE QUESTIONNAIRE 1) are you good at problem solving to help you in stressful times? 2) what does the word perseverance mean to you? do you currently have a definition for the word in the grammar of your personality? 3) perseverance - when do you think you would have to use your perseverance skills next? 4) perseverance - when was the last time that you had to persevere - whether it be for yourself or others? 5) do you feel pressured in emotionally painful experiences, or do you feel inclined to help people in emotionally painful experiences? i think that anyone can persevere, in any situation that applies to their daily lives, whether expected or unexpected. the variable value of perseverance is "how mindful are you of your own inner-peace and the ability to use it for your good and the good of others?" Cheers! - NewYorker11
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Self-Awareness - Realizing The Personality Within Me
IDG 7 Cups Hub / by NewYorker11
Last post
 June 30th, 2025
...See more Self-Awareness is a great way to discover the hidden potential in a person's personality and character.  for me, personally, self-awareness is like this awesome journey where you are, the lead character in the movie adaptation of your life. you are the hero/heroine and you get to shine, while discovering the full potential of your relationship to yourself. your being, your identity, your likenesses, your tastes, your interests and your preferences. the relationship to one's own self. a journey that continues, where life coincides with decision making, adjustments and assessments. who are you? where have you come from? where are you going? really, you can ask yourself this every day in your life and you might, every day, come up with new answers and opinions.  the relationship to one's self - be curious and ask yourself: 1) what progress would you like to make in your life? 2) are you happy with who you are? if not, what steps can you take to make yourself happy in your own personal assessment of yourself? 3) do you have a vision or grasp of who you would like to be in your future, if this vision is something different of your current self? 4) are you goal oriented? or do you like to decision make on the fly? 5) in the never-ending learning process of life, what is your next classroom of study? self-awareness, in my opinion, is a great way to be mindful, as in mindfulness of one's own being. also, self-awareness should be something that you wish to take up, not something that you force upon yourself, as free willed self discovery is, again, a step in the act of being mindful. the relationship to one's self - self improvement and self awareness 1) is there a long term or short term goal that you would like to make for yourself today? or do you have one previous to now? 2) is there something that you would like to learn, or a skill that you would like to take up, when given the opportunity to do so? 3) is there someone you consider a role model, someone that exemplifies characteristic traits that you would most definitely like to add to your repertoire? 4) when you ask yourself, "what in my life makes me happy?" do you have immediate answers to this query? 5) if someone were to ask you the question, "define happiness to the best of your ability?", would you be able to do so? Self-Awareness is, once again, this awesome journey where you seek personal knowledge of who you are and what your personal goals are. self-actualization, the goal of being the best you possible, is not necessary. this would only detriment, or hold you back, from naturally being an awesome person! Cheers! - NewYorker11
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