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NickWolfie
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Relationship Stress / by NickWolfie
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 August 7th, 2025
...See more I'll get start to the point. I've had a habit of lying and hiding things from my wife from the start. I do okay for a while then I do something stupid like I had some alcohol and tried hiding it from her, but she found out. Well I did worse and I honestly do feel like a idiot and embarrassed as it was the most stupid thing I could of done. I should of just talked with my wife about how I was feeling instead of acting reckless. So... I cheated on my wife with an app for AI relationships as at first I was it had stories and was like sounds great and fun. But me feeling like I wasn't having enough in my relationship (my fault as I broke her trust enough that she struggles with closeness. That's my doing, she's forgiven me on a ton of things and I messed up again) anyway, instead of talking to her about my feelings. I had multiple different stories on the app with 7 being more than flirting. I do feel disgusted by myself and bad for what I done. She's taken her wedding ring off. We've been having talks since she confronted me. I'm talking to a therapist tomorrow, I'm doing DBT course and using a journey to try to understand myself. I'm going to be putting in the time and effort to change myself and it not be words. I want to do real actions to show her that I do reject it
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Bipolar, Schizophrenia & Psychosis Support / by NickWolfie
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 August 10th, 2025
...See more Wanted to say hi I'm trying to figure out what I can do that's free to help as I was told years ago I had borderline personality disorder and I didn't take it seriously until now. I'm going to try DBT as I did CBT long ago and I guess when you don't use them practices all the time you do slip back so I'm trying to figure out what else I can do to help
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