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Horrible breakup. I need advice.
Relationship Stress / by Notaherojustagirl
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 April 30th, 2020
...See more Hey guys. So, my s.o. and I have been together for 4 1/2 years, living together for over 2 years. She is my everything and I love her so dearly, you can't even imagine. But we have had more fights lately than usual and I have been afraid of losing her for a while now. This morning, she told me that she can't do this anymore and that she wants to break up. It was the classic "it's not you, it's me" talk. I feel so incredibly hurt and I am in so much pain right now. I love her more than life itself and she told me she loves me back, but that she doesn't think this relationship is right. Of course I respect her decision. I want her to be happy, with or without me. But I am so heartbroken right now, I don't know what to do. I hope that someday she will take me back, but I won't try to pressure her into anything. I just need advice on how to get through this. This is my first breakup. I am in so much pain and I don't know how to deal with it. I have been sitting on the bed and crying my eyes out for the last 3 hours, I feel so lonely and hurt. Please help me.
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