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Novelwriter
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Christian accountability
The Church Cares / by Novelwriter
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 February 18th
...See more Where did you guys find good christian accountability? :)  Or is anyone also seeking for something like that?
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Cleaning
Motivation & Accountability / by Novelwriter
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 January 7th
...See more I've been struggling so much with my ADHD. I have been struggling to clean my house so much. Today I am going to clean it. I am also going to try and focus on 1 thing at a time. I really struggling and im unsure on how to make me to something when I have all these freeze moments.
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I just want to share a poem with you guys..hopefully it will bless someone 🤍
Religion & Spirituality / by Novelwriter
Last post
 May 31st, 2024
...See more Father, I come to You Most days And I don't hear  I come boldly I say: Lord, why aren’t You talking to me  Lord, I need help, so why aren't You helping  Lord, can't You see what I have to deal with Where are You Lord? I don't know how to do this So I get angry  Do I have to adress You as a King before You listen Or can I talk to You as a friend I just don't know how Lord I have so much respect for You Almighty God And I know that this prayer sounds arrogant  I am just so confused Lord  I desire You  I call out: Holy Spirit I want to understand But I sit here I hear nothing  I feel nothing  How long can I try this time to stay in prayer  Before sin knocks: No, don't go there, you're going to feel bad Go there, atleast will feel something  Stop it Should I rebuke my mind when this happen Lord? Holy Spirit, please teach me, I want to understand more  God, if I desire You  Aren't You gonna let me understand You more Lord I am tired I want to know You Please Lord, teach me Amen.
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Structure
Trauma Support / by Novelwriter
Last post
 April 11th, 2024
...See more Hi.  I didn't know whether or not i should post it but i really need some information or guides or something i can read.  Is it normal to crave punishment? So I was abused as a child, lived with 4 different families and grew up in a children's home. I just have this desire so much for rules and consequences. Maybe I didn't have enough structure as a child? Is there any exercise or something i can read that will stop me from asking people to be strict with me. Kind regards.
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No motivation
Motivation & Accountability / by Novelwriter
Last post
 March 23rd, 2024
...See more I have no motivation to start my studies and I almost feel like I need someone to push me si hard to do it..I do have ADHD but seriously why can't I just overcome it and get stuff done like normal people. I need all the accountability to finish this. I just don't feel like doing it but I don't want to fail.
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Hi
Motivation & Accountability / by Novelwriter
Last post
 February 29th, 2024
...See more I am just going to post. I joined this but I haven't really checked in or anything but I don't even feel motivated to check in. So I'm not sure what would be the best way to ask for guidance or anything but I can't start my assignments. It always look so overwhelming and alot that I procrastinate until the last hour or mins even.. I then realised it won't be done perfectly and I have got no marks for it before.  I do have ADHD and I am trying so hard but the motivation just isn't there.  So I don't really know where to start. Every small thing feel hard plus I'm writing this now again because I'm frustrated with myself for having a long assignment due tonight and I want to leave it because there's no way it'll look good.  Our lectures doesn't really accept late assignments.  Regards, Novel.
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Finding a listener
Trauma Support / by Novelwriter
Last post
 October 24th, 2022
...See more Hi, I hope it's ok to post this here. I have been trying to find a listener to speak to about truama but I am struggling to find one. Any suggestions? There are a few listeners who accepted my request and some left after like 10 mins of chatting and the others were rude. Or trying to connect to 10 diff listeners. Their status that are green but no one seems available. I only come here to vent, so I just want to speak to someone that won't be hurtful. I know that there are good listeners too. I just don't want to continue searching and end up with listeners not being kind. Thank you :)
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