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OceanLover4444
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I feel like I’m obsessing over my boyfriends past
Relationship Stress / by OceanLover4444
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 October 21st, 2022
...See more my boyfriend and I have been together for just under 2 years and I stumbled across his old texts and photos/videos of him and his ex. we had no reception and my phone was missing so I was aimlessly scrolling around on his and there was stuff like “I’ve never loved anyone like I love you” and stuff like that and it was weird because I’ve always been told it was a silly relationship and that she cheated on him and they dated for 3 months when they were 15. But they had most of their firsts together, and I had my firsts with him, soooo there’s that. I’ve just always thought that I was his first real love and she only really caused him pain but after reading the texts and seeing the photos/videos it didn’t seem like that at all. I guess i could be jealous or it could be my anxiety I’m not sure, surely someone has had similar feelings and can help get me out of my own thoughts. I’m just trying to let go of the fact that he had a relationship before me, doesn’t matter what they did, he loves me more than he has ever loved anyone before. at least I hope haha
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