Olweg |
Listener - Helper 8

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Bonjour,

Je propose écoute et soutien à destination principalement des personnes trans qui en ressentiraient le besoin, ainsi que leur entourage. Que vous ayez juste besoin d'échanger avec quelqu'un qui respectera votre genre, prénom, pronoms et accords, ou que vous souhaitiez obtenir des informations, des documents et ressources, ou encore d'exprimer vos doutes, questionnements etc, n'hésitez pas à me contacter.

Je suis moi-même trans et militant, accueillant depuis plusieurs années (entretiens individuels, chat-écoute et groupes de paroles). J'ai également une formation à la CNV (Communication Non Violente), et suis familier avec la neuroatypie, les TCA (Troubles du Comportement Alimentaires), les violences conjugales, les violences médicales...

N'hésitez pas non plus à me contacter si vous avez des questionnements plus largement par rapport aux genres, aux orientations sexuelles, à la sexualité, relations à l'entourage, le stress de minorité etc.

Chacun-e à ses propres clefs et solutions, je souhaite juste apporter ma contribution pour vous permettre de trouver vous-même vos solutions :)

à bientôt !

Olweg

-> You speak english only and want to talk about specifically LGBTQI+ related issues or topics ? No problem, feel free to contact me if you're either transgender, or a friend, family member, partner, coworker of a transgender person etc. I'll gladly listen to you and be there for you if you're in need of a friendly ear, support etc...
I'm a trans man, and therefore present as a peer, not as a cisgender "professional". :) So hopefully you'll feel comfortable enough to contact me :)



Note : Je ne suis PAS professionnel de santé. Je suis une personne concernée qui pratique la pairémulation (l'émulation entre pairs) et utilise mon expérience personnelle, celle acquise pendant plus de 10 ans de militantisme auprès d'une grande diversité de personnes trans, et mes qualité d'écoute active, de pratique de la CNV pour proposer de l'écouter et du soutien.
-> I'm NOT a professional health therapist and therefore don't offer therapy. I'm a trans guy using my own experience, the one I got from more than 10 years of activism in the trans community, my knowledge in NVC (Non Violent Communication) and my personal abilities in listening and support. :)

Number of Ratings: 4
Number of Reviews: 3
Listens to Over 18
Languages English, French
Listener Since Jul 1, 2018
Last Active over 6 months ago
Gender Male
Progress Path Step 11
Cheers 5,821
People Helped 16
Chats 89
Group Support Chats 0
Listener Group Chats 1
Forum Posts 36
Forum Upvotes 32
Feedback & Reviews
Olweg was great. All the right questions were asked which helped me to think through my issues and come up with my own solutions.
Excellent listener gifted with a tremendous amount of empathy. Not only he's smart and filled with the most sincere kindness, but he also possesses the ability to make you feel respected and understood in your identity. Which is something that is unfortunately so rare nowadays in our society. I definitely recommend him.
He’s just awesome and fabulous
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Questions Answered
My depression is so bad, and the worst thing is there’s no relief or days off. How can I find things to make me care and keep going?
November 25th, 2018 9:21am
What are triggers and how do I know if I have one?
July 1st, 2018 8:31pm
How do I prevent negative thinking?
July 1st, 2018 8:39pm
Is it possible to have a binge eating disorder but still be skinny?
July 1st, 2018 8:52pm
What are some songs that you listen to that help you get through anxiety and depression?
January 12th, 2019 9:41pm
How can I explain homosexuality to my parents?
July 1st, 2018 9:08pm
How do you know if your bisexual?
July 1st, 2018 8:23pm
What's the best way to react to extended family's questions once you've come out?
July 2nd, 2018 9:57am
How do I tell my boyfriend that I'm transgender?
July 1st, 2018 8:50pm
I've just come to terms with being transgender. How do I come out to my girlfriend of many years?
July 1st, 2018 9:03pm
What's transexuality? And what's the difference between that and transgender?
July 3rd, 2018 2:54pm
I am a nonbinary person who presents as masculine. I want to experiment with my presentation and try things that are more androgynous and/or feminine. Can you recommend some specific things to try?
September 2nd, 2018 2:27pm
I don't like male genitalia, but I have a ftm transgender boyfriend and he doesn't want the surgery. I'm confused on what my sexuality would be. Can anyone help?
September 18th, 2018 8:29am
It's almost impossible for me to accept my reality and truth that i'll never be able to have normle that a girl has since i'm a male to female transgender. How do i make myself accept?
July 3rd, 2018 4:54pm
Hi my name is Taytay and by birth I am a girl , but I want to be a boy named kovu and I want to be like that but how would I tell my family and friends ? I am scared and any advi at all would be nice
July 3rd, 2018 7:48pm
I'm a man and I feel comfortable in relationships with women, but I love to watch all male porn. I also love to wear women's lingerie. Does that mean I'm gay, bisexual or straight?
July 2nd, 2018 9:30pm
I am a girl who wants to be a boy but my dad hates women and physically, sexually, and emotionally abused me into hating women and myself. Should I listen to my wanting to be trans or not?
July 3rd, 2018 5:07pm
How do you write a coming out letter to your parents? (Transgender)
July 22nd, 2018 7:46pm
How do I know if my lesbian partners is really in love with. me?
July 3rd, 2018 3:49pm
How do I know if I’m transgender? Am I just confused?
July 22nd, 2018 7:20pm
Can you call yourself bi if you’ve only had feelings for both genders, and never dated the opposite/same gender?
July 3rd, 2018 4:03pm
I don’t feel the emotion of liking people in a romantic way. Is there something wrong with me?
July 2nd, 2018 10:35pm
I have just accepted the fact that i am transgender. How do i tell the man i love that i want to be a man?
July 3rd, 2018 4:41pm
i'm sexually attracted to men and women. but i'm only romantically attracted to men. what am i?
July 3rd, 2018 2:33pm
Why am I gay if it’s a sin?
July 3rd, 2018 2:44pm
Do u think my straight friend likes me?
July 3rd, 2018 3:55pm
Can you want to have lesbian sex but not be lesbian or bisexual?
July 3rd, 2018 4:16pm
What am I if I liked my gender before but not anymore only oppisite? I need to know ASAP!!!
July 3rd, 2018 3:33pm
How can I show my support to my trans friends? Emotionally? I am very supportive of them, however I know that they are going through a a lot, but I want to off more than “love you” or “I’m here”
July 23rd, 2018 10:48am
I am transitioning from female to male and I'm considering not wearing a bra. I feel uncomfortable with this idea bit because of past trauma. How should I handle doing this?
July 23rd, 2018 10:56am
I'm demisexual - where do I fit into the LGBTQ+ community?
July 3rd, 2018 7:59pm
My child told me a year ago that she was transgender. All of this came after my father passed away. Is it coincidental or is it true? A year before that she was shopping for a dress for sixth grade aw
July 23rd, 2018 9:13am
I thought I was straight, up until the last two years, and when I looking for a dating, I only see guys; but when it comes to being in be'Md with someone, it's more women; I"m female... what do I do?
September 4th, 2018 3:33pm
Can I be like pansexual, but without being attracted to males?
September 4th, 2018 2:48pm
Does the sexual orientation of a sexually fluid person usually change more than once? If so how long does that orientation last before it changes again?
September 12th, 2018 10:22am
I work with a gay man and he uses the women's restroom instead of the men's. Does he maybe identify himself as a man or as a woman?
September 17th, 2018 6:40am
I'm female, but I don't feel female. I feel more non-binary, outside male or female but my parents don't see it as a real gender. I want to choose one for personal reasons. But which?
September 30th, 2018 8:31am
I like the look of guys, but not sexually... Yet I like girls sexually but not I don’t look at them like it. Like I have a really strong emotional attraction to guys, but no sexual real sexual drive ?
September 30th, 2018 7:31am
What do you call a sexuality like genderflux? I go between bisexual, demibisexual, and asexual like someone who is generalize changes from full on one gender to demi to agender is there a word for it?
October 8th, 2018 7:13am
How can I bind my (relatively small) chest without a binder? (I'm not in a position where I can get one)
November 22nd, 2018 2:19pm
Can you be asexual and still like dirty fanfition?
December 8th, 2018 9:31am
I'm lonely at school, I have troubles with making friends. As soon as I get home i want to hurt myself to stop feeling lonely. I punch walls but now I want to cut myself. What should I do?
September 17th, 2018 11:54am
My body clock is so messed up. I always feel sleepy during the day but can't really sleep at night. How to deal with this?
October 19th, 2018 8:07am
I'm in love with my ex. But I know there's no point going back to him cause I'm leaving the country. I really want him. What are some things I can do to accept this reality better for myself?
September 30th, 2018 7:54am
I want to run away to my friends house. Not sure what to do though. Should I run away?
October 8th, 2018 7:27am
What is domestic violence?
July 22nd, 2018 12:32pm
Who can experience domestic violence?
July 22nd, 2018 12:14pm
I'm polyamorous & I recently had a bad experience with someone & now I'm apprehensive about getting intimate with anyone. How do I explain this to my partner (who is ok with us being non-monogamous)?
September 17th, 2018 6:52am
Is it considered a mistress when you have a relationship with a person who already has a family but they are not married?
October 8th, 2018 6:40am
How can a 16 year old (me) possibly lose his virginity? The best way to avoid sexual frustration and libido kicks?
July 22nd, 2018 2:35pm
How do I raise my self-esteem?
December 2nd, 2018 12:56pm
if I'm gay does God accept me?
October 28th, 2018 8:19pm
What is the difference between Psychiatry and Psychology ?
October 19th, 2018 7:49am