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OneDirectionLover
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Trauma Support / by OneDirectionLover
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 July 8th, 2023
...See more Hello! I’m new here and I just have been a bit overwhelmed recently. I’m 22 and I got my first boyfriend about 4 months ago. I was molested for about 10 years starting at the age of 7 by three different people. My boyfriend is the only person that I’ve ever told but he keeps telling me that I need to see a therapist and get mental health help. I agreed to make an appointment next Monday but I just don’t know what to do. I know that I have a lot of mental health problems and that I need help but I just don’t know where to start. He said that he’ll go with me as moral support but I’m just so unsure about the whole thing. I want to be normal I really really do and I don’t want all this paranoia and anxiety anymore but I don’t know how to talk to a therapist. My mind keeps showing me the worst case scenarios of the therapist saying that it’s all my fault or that I need to be ashamed of myself of making me feel worse in any way. I just don’t know that to do… for any of you that have been to therapy, how did it go? Were you able to talk about the things that happened to you? Did it actually help? Please let me know. p.s. Don’t worry about my handle, I first made this account in 2015 lol.
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