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OrlandoKlyn
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I think the breakup is changing who I am as a person.
Relationship Stress / by OrlandoKlyn
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 July 21st, 2017
...See more I think the breakup is changing the way I am as a person regarding to what I used to believe before, I'm in the recovering process and I know it will take a long time to recover from a relationship that was for 5 years, But the thing is I'm starting to see things from different prospective now to how I was before, Like I see that we men's when we really fall in love and give love,care,and respect we don't do it cheap, we really give it all we have but now I see that this isn't what women's wants, because they run away from the man who give them it all, And they go to the one who give them the little, I don't know how it works but I started to see that those men's who are a bit cold with women's and doesn't give much away is the ones who get the women's to want them more, And maybe those kind of men's has once gave it their all and didn't end up well with that so they've turned that way, Women's usually asking for men's to give them their all, and some will say ''You was just with the wrong person" But I don't see it that way, I just started to see myself as the one who didn't figure it out until too late, how to move on while feeling this way is the hardest and painful part, I don't want to hurt anyone just because I got hurt before and I don't want that my previous relationship to effect on me as a person and changing who I am, I mean yeah there's some acceptable changing for the best but there's some other is actually changing my believes and my faith in humanity, I'm trying to really move on and I know it will take time and I'm willing to do anything to be a better person and also to show to myself and her that I'm a fighter person and worth to be respected and worth to be waiting for, but just don't want the down monents that I get through my recover process to effect on me as a person anyone got idea how to?
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