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OutisCyrko
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Feeling empty
Depression Support / by OutisCyrko
Last post
 July 1st
...See more Hey guys, so im 16 years old and about 2 months ago someone i was in a relationship/situationship with broke up with me.  It was right around our graduation so it didn't really hit me at first, but a few weeks into vacation i started feeling it (or rather there lack of).  I feel like I've just been going through the motions, and i get this hollow feeling inside, like I've been scooped out.  When I'm with friends and family everything feels normal, but as soon as I'm on my own a switch flips and I'm back to feeling nothing at all.  It gets worse at night, sometimes I feel anxious and find it hard to breathe.  My hobbies (like going to the gym, playing drums, songwriting), friends and family help me keep on track, but I'm just not sure how to help myself here.
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Dealing with Relationship Anxiety
Relationship Stress / by OutisCyrko
Last post
 December 23rd, 2025
...See more So I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months now after taking a break when I broke up with my ex.  I broke up with him because in the 3 months before I decided to break it off, I started realizing that he doesn't really care the same way I did for him.  My ex treated me like another one of his friends and that really put me off.  I felt like I was putting in all the effort in the relationship and he was kinda just coasting along.  Now with my new boyfriend, I've started noticing habits or issues that I never had in my previous relationship.  First of all, I'm starting to overthink everything.  For example: I know he's a slow replier, yet I still get nervous whenever he takes long to reply.  I start thinking stuff like "is he mad at me" or "did I do something wrong", when in reality he's just busy or forgot to reply.  (Context: we are classmates and haven't gone public with our relationship.)  Or maybe when I see one of his friends being "too friendly" or touchy with him I start getting jealous and angry at that friend, even start seeing them as threats.  Then when I step back and think "dude he can have friends, it wouldn't make sense if he got mad when you hang out with your friends now would it", I realize how irrational my feelings were.  Logically speaking, I know our relationship is in a good place.  But in my head, it feels like extreme highs and lows.  With every intimate and loving moment that makes me feel close with him, there's always a moment that just completely brings me down, whether for good reason or not. Please help me guys 
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BPD like symptoms?
Personality Disorders Support / by OutisCyrko
Last post
 September 25th, 2025
...See more So I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months now after taking a break when I broke up with my ex.  I broke up with him because in the 3 months before I decided to break it off, I started realizing that he doesn't really care the same way I did for him.  My ex treated me like another one of his friends and that really put me off.  I felt like I was putting in all the effort in the relationship and he was kinda just coasting along.  Now with my new boyfriend, I've started noticing habits or issues that I never had in my previous relationship.  First of all, I'm starting to overthink everything.  For example: I know he's a slow replier, yet I still get nervous whenever he takes long to reply.  I start thinking stuff like "is he mad at me" or "did I do something wrong", when in reality he's just busy or forgot to reply.  Yet that fear that a distance is growing between us takes over me, it becomes all I can think about.  (Context: we are classmates and haven't gone public with our relationship.)  Or maybe when I see one of his friends being "too friendly" or touchy with him I start getting jealous and angry at that friend, even start seeing them as threats.  Again, it becomes all that's on my mind, then when I step back and think "dude he can have friends, it wouldn't make sense if he got mad when you hang out with your friends now would it", I realize how irrational my feelings were.  Logically speaking, I know our relationship is in a good place.  But in my head, it feels like extreme highs and lows.  With every intimate and loving moment that makes me feel close with him, there's always a moment that just completely brings me down, whether for good reason or not. Please help me guys 
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How to deal with intense spikes of jealousy and being a chronic overthinker
Relationship Stress / by OutisCyrko
Last post
 September 23rd, 2025
...See more So I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months now after taking a break when I broke up with my ex.  I broke up with him because in the 3 months before I decided to break it off, I started realizing that he doesn't really care the same way I did for him.  My ex treated me like another one of his friends and that really put me off.  I felt like I was putting in all the effort in the relationship and he was kinda just coasting along.  Now with my new boyfriend, I've started noticing habits or issues that I never had in my previous relationship.  First of all, I'm starting to overthink everything.  For example: I know he's a slow replier, yet I still get nervous whenever he takes long to reply.  I start thinking stuff like "is he mad at me" or "did I do something wrong", when in reality he's just busy or forgot to reply.  (Context: we are classmates and haven't gone public with our relationship.)  Or maybe when I see one of his friends being "too friendly" or touchy with him I start getting jealous and angry at that friend, even start seeing them as threats.  Then when I step back and think "dude he can have friends, it wouldn't make sense if he got mad when you hang out with your friends now would it", I realize how irrational my feelings were.  Logically speaking, I know our relationship is in a good place.  But in my head, it feels like extreme highs and lows.  With every intimate and loving moment that makes me feel close with him, there's always a moment that just completely brings me down, whether for good reason or not. Please help me guys 
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