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Relationship Stress / by PandaBottle
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 July 16th
...See more I've been married for almost 4 years. Right before the wedding, my now partner had an "emotional" affair. We went to couples counseling. And worked through what was happening. She took ownership for what happened. And I was incredibly understanding. There was a lot of stress and change in almost every aspect of life. And we had moved forward. That did trigger my being cheated on in a previous relationship as well. Fast forward to May of this year. She met someone through her work and began a friendship. This is common and I have been good with this to date. But then things started triggering previous hurts. She said she was confused about her relationship with this person. Then this friend confessed that they had a crush on her. And they also are now working together - remotely. There is probably more. They spent time together where to other person lives - always with others around. But that was still very hard for me. And we had another conversation and that piece about them telling my wife they had a crush really activated something in me. And really brought up some strong, intense emotions about how they shouldn't have done that. And it makes me skeptical that they still don’t have motives with my wife. Another trip is planned to see this person - and most of the time they'll be with others. But i'm still just angry and want nothing to do with this person but my wife is tight with them. How do i work through this?
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