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PartyofNo1always
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PathStep 2 Compassion hearts166 Forum posts6 Forum upvotes136 Current upvotes136 Age GroupAdult Last activeAugust, 2024 Member sinceAugust 12, 2024
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I don't know if this is the right place
Anxiety Support / by PartyofNo1always
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August 13th, 2024
...See more This is about my brother not a significant other. I let him into my home because he was homeless and family asked me to. I have an adult disabled daughter. I work but my brother does not. He says he is disabled but he walks all over town even though it's in the high 90s. He doesn't help around the house. The only thing he will do is cook lunch for my daughter, but that is only so he can eat. He comes and goes as he pleases often leaving without a word for a week and then just as suddenly shows back at the house when I am at work. He doesn't bathe, brush his teeth or wear deodorant. He has never kept a job for over a year. He has lived my mooching off of everyone. I am his last resort. I've threatened to put him out but he threatens me and I know he will follow through. I can't keep feeding him. He is a glutton. I cooked lunch for my daughter that should have lasted her for the rest of the week. I came home a found he has eaten all of her food. I just don't know what do do. I don't have anyone to turn to. I am scared all the time. I have been diagnosed with PTSD and depression. I am so stressed because of him I can barely function. Does anyone have any advice?
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Alone
Newbie Hub / by PartyofNo1always
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November 18th, 2025
...See more I am so lonely. I look around a see really horrible people loved and cared for. Yet I am all alone. I often think if really bad people can have friends and be loved, what does that say about me? I can't even get therapists to care. I had one but he was God awful and was just going through the motions until i stopped seeing him. I signed up for treatment in 2018 but have never received any services. I don't think they liked me. Iwould love just to be able to talk to someone. Doesn't have to be anything earth shattering, just some friendly chit chat. Just some kind of connection with someone. But I am afraid my flaws run so deep it would be impossible.
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