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Phoebeandthebagpipes
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why can't i let go?
Relationship Stress / by Phoebeandthebagpipes
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 March 22nd, 2025
...See more Someone i met last year had a really big impact on me, even thought the romance was very much whirlwind and brief. It was brief because i ended it over text in a panic. It was stupid of me, but what's done is done. For about 6 months after it ended, i thought about him non-stop, all day, and night. I cried often and was low in mood. I lamented over what could've been, had i not ended things. I've since deleted and redownloaded the app we used to talk with eachother on several times, deleting my original account in an attempt to force myself to move on. But ofcourse, i still remember his username, and search it every so often, seeing if he's online, then daydreaming about reconnecting with him, before closing the app to try and get back to reality and carry on with my day. Today, 9 months since we last spoke, i've actually added him, because i couldnt hold back anymore. I'm hoping he doesnt accept the friend request, because maybe this rejection is the thing i need to finally get over it. We'll see..
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