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Potatobeanpie
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Be honest: Is it actually my fault?
Relationship Stress / by Potatobeanpie
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 December 13th, 2022
...See more I was in a long distance relationship with my “bf” for 1.5 years. In January 2021 we started dating, then March 2021 my grandma passed. I can’t remember much from that time. But from what I was told by my bf was that I was being cold and distant and would lash out. I was also told that I was abusive, verbally..so in August 2022..he cheated on me with my sister. If I’m being mean for that long does that mean I made him do that? i don’t remember being mean. I remember him gaslighting me..making me feel stupid, and I’d get fed up and then lash out…I’ve tried to break it off before the cheating… I just don’t know…am I really the reason for the cheating? Did I actually force him to do that?
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