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Temptation to message my ex
Relationship Stress / by PythonPursuits
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 December 30th, 2017
...See more Hello everyone, I'm not the kind of person who asks for help very often but I feel like crap recently. My girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me on Christmas eve saying that she doesn't feel the same way about us anymore. Since the start of September she stopped making any effort to meet up. We talked and she apologised admitting she knew that she had been bad and that it was stress from a new course at university. Things started to seem like they were getting better in the months leading to Christmas but I guess not. It hurts so much knowing the person you love doesn't love you back and it's been made even more difficult since we were best friends before and during the relationship. Recently all I want to do is message her like we used to. I'm not looking to get back with her. I'd rather have her in my life as a good friend than not at all. How long do you think I should wait before reaching out to her? Sorry for the long description, I just really needed to get it off my chest even if nobody reads it. Thanks guys.
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