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QueenJesster
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I am SO confused now
Relationship Stress / by QueenJesster
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January 21st, 2019
...See more I divorced my husband in October of 2018. We separated in 2017. There were a lot of issues and he was cheating. He has maintained he only internet cheated on me never physically but I found a bra in our house so I kicked him out. We went thru so much together in the 9 years we were actively married. He lived with another woman for a while and I tried dating a couple other men. Neither of us got anywhere. I am a Christian he is not. He is now living with a new girlfriend and told me he is confused bc he still thinks about me all the time and he thinks he is happy with her but can't get me off his mind. I thought I was over him and ready to move on with someone new. I have felt physically ill the past 2 weeks since I found out he moved in with her and have thrown up every day also having migraines worse than my normal ones I suffer from. I know it is emotional stress. I am praying about what to do. He says he will give it more time to see if his feelings grow for her and make it work. I told him I want him to be happy with her. I want him to be happy bc I really do. I am so confused. I don't think we could ever have a future again. How could I ever trust him? He has moved on. I told him last summer I didn't want it to work out when He did. I just don't know what to do now to get my emotions back under control and feel better. Sorry for the long post!!!! Thank you for your feedback!
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