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...See more Me and my stbx have been seperated for 6 months. We have to be seperated for a year in SC before we can get a divorce. It was mutual. This past weekend he went to see a concert with his close female friend. He did tell me they were going and that they would be staying overnight but in seperate hotel rooms. His friend got married last weekend to her boyfriend of 10 years (they have 2 kids together) and he performed their wedding. He has never once ever given me any reason to not trust him in our relationship. They also spent the day in Charlotte doung tourist stuff before the concert. He has assured me numerous times that he has no interest in her sexually or as anything more than a friend. In SC, during a seperation you are not allowed to date or have sex with anyone else since you are still legally married. I know deep down nothing happened. However, the anxiety is just eating me up inside and I can't help but think he is lying to me. I mean, I know it is normal for friends to go out of town to do things. Not to mention she is also totally not the type to cheat either. I even agree with him that it shouldn't matter if they shared a hotel room or not. He has no interest in her at all and vice-versa. Of course once we are divorced he may end up seeing someone else and it's just... confusing. I wish my anxiety would let me believe him.

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