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Rebekah
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🦺 Safety + Quality Ambassador 🦺
Number of ratings168 Number of reviews157 Listens toTeens & Over 18 LanguagesEnglish, German, Welsh Listener sinceJul 30, 2019 Last activein last week PathStep 1,909 People helped432 Chats1,953 Group support chats701 Listener group chats777 Forum posts1,665 Forum upvotes3,805
Bio

 🌞 Introduction 🌞 

Life is hard; we all know it. It's full of positive and negative moments, very few of which we have complete control over. You don't predict the future, the future predicts you. It's great to see that you're reaching out for support today. It may feel incredibly difficult to ask for guidance, be it for a current or a past situation - you are not alone in how you feel.

Members:

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Listeners:

I'm currently... available! Please feel free to send me a message. I offer mentoring on chatroom, quality, sub-community, and safety tracks!

How I Listen:



🌞 I will ensure that you, as a person, are validated. How you feel is perfectly okay.

🌞 Please be aware that I will not be offering advice, as it could be very harmful to both you and your situation, and could cause offence.

🌞 You will suffer no judgement from me.

🌞 Our chat will be as supportive and comforting as possible.

🌞 Finally, I will make sure that you are heard. Your voice deserves to be listened to.


 🌻 My Involvements 🌻 

 🌻 Quality 🌻 

o Verified Adult-Teen Listener: I completed an interview and a mock chat with a highly experienced listener to show that I'm suitable to chat with teens, and a listener of high quality. 

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o Listener Verifier Team: I verify listeners through the Verified Listener project! 

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o [Teen] Quality Mentoring: I mentor adult and teen listener quality! 

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o Quality Mentor Leading: I lead the Safety Team. Find out more about this team by sending me a message! 

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o Quality Ambassador: I am so privileged to be an ambassador for 7 Cups! 

 🌻 Safety 🌻 

o Safety Patrol: I flag profiles that have violations. 

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o Safety Outreach: I send messages to users who have fixable profile violations. 

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o Safety Discussions: I host and create discussions on safety topics. 

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o Safety Team [ST] Leader: I co-lead the Safety Team! There are 3 branches: safety patrol, safety outreach, and safety discussions. If you have any questions, please feel free to send me a message! 

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o Safety Ambassador: I am so privileged to be an ambassador for 7 Cups! 

 🌻 Chat Rooms 🌻 

o Doorkeeper: I'm able to open & close chat rooms. 

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o Peer Support: I offer support to listeners after a difficult chat (*not* for personal issues. That is what member accounts are for). 

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o Chat Support: I offer support to listeners during a tricky chat. 

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o Global Chatroom Moderation: I help to create a positive and inclusive environment in all member chat rooms! 

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o [Teen] Chatroom Mentor: I moderate in the listener chat rooms to ensure they stay safe and inclusive! 

 🧁 About Me 🧁 

 🧁 I love video gaming, especially The Sims 4, Fallout 4, Forza Horizon 4/5, GTA, and Resident Evil -- 4? Yes, but also the others 😛 

 🧁 I love Doctor Who (10th Doctor is my favourite)! 

 🧁 I am once again questioning my sexuality, and I don't mind what pronouns you use! 🌈💙

 🧁 My favourite music genres are classic rock, heavy metal, 70s/80s pop/rock, punk rock, and indie/alternative. 

 🧁 I am currently dealing with obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) and complex-post traumatic stress disorder (c-PTSD). 

 🧁 My favourite artists are; My Chemical Romance // Lady Gaga // Green Day // Joji // Amy Winehouse // Nothing But Thieves // Muse // Twenty One Pilots


 ✨ VIPs ✨

@bouncySalamander26; Sal is a joy. He's funny, kind, a fantastic friend. Thank you, for always being awesome!  P.S. "snoozy sponge!"

@Gracey; I will never be able to thank Grace enough for her kindness and support over the years. She is sweet, understanding, patient, and always knows how to help out. Thank you, for always being a good friend 💙

@Tazzie; I miss you. You were an amazing listener, a dedicated leader, and an outstanding person. Thank you, for always believing in me. Rest eternally in peace 🕯️


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Recent forum posts
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Creating a Safe 7 Cups Profile!
Safety & Knowledge at 7 Cups / by Rebekah
Last post
 1 hour ago
...See more Hi everyone! I've wanted to create a short forum post detailing how to have a safe 7 Cups profile for quite some time now, so here it is 🦺 Obviously, this is NOT a full list of things to keep out of a profile. I would strongly suggest visiting the Safety Patrol guide [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vBXLvo7gLMewIM1lhnZ2g8MXAnq4sMwxqXgxzTJCDos/edit#heading=h.xy53ihg3emsp] to see what is and what is not allowed in a profile. Everything that applies to members also applies to listeners, but not everything that applies to listeners also applies to members. That sounds... complicated 😅 So, for example, members are allowed to use professional healthcare titles in their usernames, but listeners are not. Listeners Safe Usernames What we shouldn't use… * Real names 📝🚫 * Professional healthcare titles 🧑‍⚕️ * Doctor ❌ * Therapist ❌ * Nurse ❌ What we should use! * Keep it supportive 🫂 * Warm, welcoming words 🌞 * Something we can remember 🧠 * Something we identify with 🌟 Safe Pictures What we shouldn't use… * Visible cleavage/midriffs/chest 👙 * Medical staff 🩺 * Smoking 🚬 * Weapons ⚔️ What we should use! * Something we identify with 🌟 * Calm, supportive images 🖼️ Safe Bios What we shouldn't use… * Our life story 📖 * A few sentences is okay! * Offering advice or solutions 🗣️ * Social media handles 📱 * Anything about suicide 💙 * Crisis lines are okay! * Place of work/university/school 🌍 What we should use! * Supportive language 🫶 Members Safe Usernames What we shouldn't use… * Curse words ‼️ * Real names 📝🚫 * Triggering words 🔕 Safe Pictures What we shouldn't use… * Weapons ⚔️ * Visible cleavage/midriffs/chest 👙 * Graphic things 😮 * Blood ❌ * Self-harm/suicide related ❌ Safe Bios What we shouldn't use… * Anything about suicide 💙 * Crisis lines are okay! * Social media handles 📱 * Place of work/university/school 🌍 I would like to reiterate -- this is NOT an expansive list! I strongly suggest visiting the Safety Patrol guide [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vBXLvo7gLMewIM1lhnZ2g8MXAnq4sMwxqXgxzTJCDos/edit#heading=h.xy53ihg3emsp] to see what is and what is not allowed in a profile, as it contains A LOT of information about having a safe profile 🦺
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7 Cups No-Nos
Safety & Knowledge at 7 Cups / by Rebekah
Last post
 15 hours ago
...See more Hello, 7 Cups Community! I’m Rebekah, you may have seen me around the site as a safety and quality ambassador. A while ago (over 2 years now!), @MidnightRaven999 and I were talking about things that we should avoid on 7 Cups. This list is quite expansive, but probably isn’t including every issue that can arise. Let me know in a comment below this post if I’ve left out anything! No No’s for Listeners * Self-Review or Contact Personal Listener/Member Account * What? * This is where we leave reviews for ourselves from our personal member accounts, or attempt to increase "cheers" or "chats" on profiles. * Why? * Your profile would not correctly represent who you are as a listener, leading members to be misled. * We want our reviews to accurately reflect our behaviour and support from members who we actually offered it to, not a biased or inaccurate rating. Reviewing ourselves does not achieve what a ‘real’ review does! * Behavioural Consequences? * Yes. This will result in 4 behaviour points. * Talk to Multiple Members at Once * What? * This is where we offer support to multiple members at once through PMs. * Why? * It’s unfair to our members. They would not have our sole focus/attention. It’s also unfair to ourselves. We are more likely to burn out this way. * We run the risk of sending a message to the wrong user! * Behavioural Consequences? * No. * Break Confidentiality * What? * This is where we reference another user by name and/or specific content from a confidential 1-1 chat. This also includes sharing screenshots from private conversations. * Why? * It can feel very upsetting and frustrating when our private chat details are exposed elsewhere. Not only that, it also breaks the trust that has been put into you. * Try and place yourselves in the position of a member who has just given some private information to a listener via PMs. Would you want your listener spreading your information around the rooms? * Behavioural Consequences? * Yes. This will result in 1 behaviour point. * Support Users in Crisis * What? * This is where we offer support to users who are currently in a crisis state, for example wanting to harm themselves or others. * Why? * We are not equipped/trained to support users who are in a crisis situation. Please also note that we cannot, under any circumstances, contact emergency services on behalf of a user. Due to the anonymity of the site, users cannot be identified, thus making it redundant to attempt. * We can’t hold someone’s life in our hands -- it is not our responsibility. * Behavioural Consequences? * No. * Use a Listener Account to get Personal Support * What? * This is where we try to gain personal support from a listener while using a listener account. This is NOT the same as receiving peer or chat support. * Why? * Listener accounts are for offering support only. It’s unprofessional to try and access support from this type of account. * Member accounts are the appropriate account for gaining personal support. Please see this link for further information ---> https://bit.ly/31vRrEs [https://bit.ly/31vRrEs]  * Behavioural Consequences? * No. * Disrespect/Act Uncooperative with Listener Coaching Team (LCT) * What? * This is where we ignore the suggestions of, or are disrespectful towards, members of the LCT who have contacted you. * Why? * Everyone should always show respect and courteousness to others. * Listener Coaches are trained to offer support along your listener journey. They want to help you -- they are not there to attack you (or be attacked). * Behavioural Consequences? * Yes. This will result in 3 behaviour points. No No’s for Everyone * Triangulate * What? * This is where an issue between two users involves a third user, usually through discussion in PMs or rooms. * Why? * Triangulation perpetuates rumours, gossip, and can be harmful to wider situations where confidentiality is essential. * Spreading mis- or dis-information can be harmful to the site and the thousands of people who use it. * Behavioural Consequences? * Yes. This will result in 3 behaviour points. * Connect Offsite * What? * This is where we have contact with users offsite, such as on social media. This does NOT include knowing someone personally (in real life) and then suggesting they join 7 Cups. However, we all should be anonymous on our accounts, so your accounts should be kept separate and anonymised. * Why? * It violates privacy and confidentiality rules. Engaging in offsite contact is dangerous, because no one is ever who they say they are on the internet. I've lost count of how many horror stories that have come up due to offsite contact. It's not worth it. * I know from experience how harmful offsite contact can be. Read here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/safe7cups/OffsiteContact_2701/MyExperienceswithOffsiteContact_317308/] for more information. * Behavioural Consequences? * Yes. This will result in between 3 - 6 behaviour points, depending on the number of individuals involved. * Make Multiple Accounts * What? * This is where we create more than one listener and one member account per person. * Why? * If one or both of your accounts have been banned/are inaccessible, the correct procedure is to fill out this form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScqva6u9GVllcKFBro2ZOg2tugEknrU8cMoi__JJClisFZzJw/viewform], not to make multiple accounts. Any and all multiple accounts (including the original 'main' account) are terminated. * There is no point to having more than 1 listener or member account. It can be confusing for others and the 'points' you earn from listening/engaging in rooms will not adequately reflect YOU. * Behavioural Consequences? * Yes. This will result in 3 behaviour points. * Bully Others * What? * This is where we intentionally hurt the feelings of another user, or make them feel uncomfortable consistently in the rooms or in PMs. * Why? * Bullying isn't okay and it shouldn't be normalised. 7 Cups is a platform for support, not for causing hurt. * Being rude, disrespectful, or mean-spirited is not compatible with how we want our site to be. We aim to promote inclusivity, safety, and a safe space for those who need it. * Behavioural Consequences? * Yes. This will result in 3 behaviour points. * Act Inappropriately * What? * This is where we do not behave in an appropriate manner, often relating to tone and language. * Why? * Using an inappropriate tone or language not only makes users feel uncomfortable, it can make them feel unsafe and unsupported. * 7 Cups promotes a supportive and safe environment for everyone -- acting inappropriately goes against this.  * Behavioural Consequences? * Yes. This will result in 3 behaviour points. * Roleplay/Chatting Sexually * What? * This is where we send sexually explicit messages to each other, usually through PMs. This is usually via L-M (listener-member), but can sometimes be L-L (listener-listener). * Why? * 7 Cups is not a dating site, nor is it an appropriate place to be sending sexual messages/images. * Our platform is not the right place for roleplaying or sex-chatting. Not only is it unprofessional from a listener perspective, it is actively taking advantage of vulnerable users. We are all here because we were/are struggling with something, and engaging in a sexual conversation with a fellow user, be it onsite or offsite, can be detrimental to the healing processes many of us experience.  * Behavioural Consequences? * Yes. This will result in 8 behaviour points. It often results in a permanent ban, as well. * Engage in Romantic Relationships * What? * This is where we form romantic bonds with other users, such as starting a romantic relationship or connecting offsite to do so. * Why? * 7 Cups is a mental health support platform, not a place for forming romantic relationships. * Not only is it unprofessional from a listener perspective, it is actively taking advantage of vulnerable users. We are all here because we were/are struggling with something, and engaging in a romantic relationship with a fellow user, be it onsite or offsite, can be detrimental to the healing processes many of us experience. * Behavioural Consequences? * Yes. This will result in 5 behaviour points. * Engage in Conflict * What? * This is where we essentially 'fight' or argue with other users. * Why? * 7 Cups is a place for everyone to feel comfortable and supported. Arguments and fights do not facilitate that, rather the opposite. If ever there is an issue between yourself and another user, do not 'fan the flame'. Use conflict resolution techniques, and if needed, contact helpdesk [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/requests/new/] with screenshots. * I understand that we all have opinions. However, 7 Cups aims to stay as neutral and inclusive as possible, and as a result, sharing (and engaging in conflict over) things such as political views, religious beliefs or other thoughts that can cause disruption, should be largely avoided. * Behavioural Consequences? * Yes. This will result in 2 behaviour points. * Impersonate Others * What? * This is where we pretend to be a different user on the site, such as admin, an ambassador, a community mod, or another user even without leadership roles. * Why? * If impersonating admin or an ambassador, users may feel they can trust you with sensitive information, leading to compromisation of situations that are best dealt with by admin. In the same vein, impersonators could give incorrect or misleading information. * We are all our own individual people. That's what sets us apart from everyone else. There's no point in trying to be someone's double, because there's only ever enough room for one of each person. * Behavioural Consequences? * Yes. This will result in 5 behaviour points. * Guess Who ComMods Are * What? * This is where we try to guess whether Community Moderators have 'main' or 'other' member/listener accounts on the site. * Why? * ComMods deserve a right to be anonymous, and to feel safe. Releasing information on the alleged identity of ComMods can compromise safety, as they are targeted quite frequently by malicious users. * It's an invasion of privacy, and is invalidating of their identities. There are very real people behind the screen. * Behavioural Consequences? * Yes. This is a type of gossip, thus will result in 2 behaviour points. * Block Without Reason * What? * This is where we block another user without a proper and detailed reason. * Why? * It's important that we are as accurate as possible with our block reasons. Do not ask admin to "read the chat", as this is not possible. * Admin can only go off of what is in that block box! Make sure to use it appropriately. * Behavioural Consequences? * No. * Disregard Boundaries of Others * What? * This is where we continuously override the boundaries of another user, including stalking or harassing them. * Why? * Boundaries are put in place to protect ourselves from discomfort. These should be respected by everyone. * Not only are stalking and harassment illegal, it is also very invasive of privacy and can lead people to feel unsafe. * Behavioural Consequences? * Yes. This will result in 3 behaviour points. * Flirt with Others * What? * This is where we infer sexual innuendo with another user, be it seriously or playfully. * Why? * 7 Cups is a mental health support platform, not a place for forming romantic relationships. * Not only is it not appropriate for the site, it does not align with our values, and can be exceptionally uncomfortable for others. * Behavioural Consequences? * Yes. This will result in 3 behaviour points. * Gossip with Others * What? * This is where we discuss rumours or information that we have heard, that has no evidence, and is based on hearsay. * Why? * Spreading mis- or dis-information can be harmful to the site and the thousands of people who use it. * Gossip can damage reputations, and can impact lives more than we know. Our community is not compatible with rumours or gossip. * Behavioural Consequences? * Yes. This will result in 3 behaviour points. * Disrespect/Act Uncooperative with Safety Outreach * What? * This is where we refuse to change a profile violation, or are disrespectful towards SO users. * Why? * Everyone should always show respect and courteousness to others. * Safety Outreach users are trained to offer constructive guidance on how to rectify a profile violation. Just like the LCT, they want to help you -- they are not there to attack you (or be attacked).  * Behavioural Consequences? * TBD. No No’s for ATLs * Connect Offsite with Teens * What? * This is where we connect to teens (13-17) on ANY SITE that is not 7 Cups. The ONLY exception is in a GOOGLE GROUP FACILITATED BY ADMIN. * Why? * … why do you want to contact teens offsite? Seriously, if you have to ask this question, you may not be the best fit for the role. * Teens are often vulnerable. You are the adult, and you have a special privilege to be able to talk to teens. Please do not abuse it. * Behavioural Consequences? * Yes. A million times, yes. Any ATL caught engaging in offsite contact will receive 5 behaviour points. All leadership roles and ATL access will be immediately revoked. Hopefully, these pointers detail and explain common things that users do that result in behaviour consequences, and why we shouldn't do them!
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Mob Mentality
Safety & Knowledge at 7 Cups / by Rebekah
Last post
 July 27th
...See more Hello everyone! 🌞 It's time for our July forum safety discussion. This month's topic? Mob Mentality 👥 What's 'mob mentality'? Mob mentality is when individuals in a group adopt behaviors or beliefs based on the influence of the larger crowd. In a mob, people tend to follow the group's actions, driven by strong emotions like fear or excitement, and may act in extreme or irrational ways. The anonymity of the crowd reduces personal accountability, leading to behavior that would be unlikely if acting alone ❌ Oh, okay. How does that happen? Several factors contribute to mob mentality, including: Anonymity, which reduces personal accountability and encourages more extreme behavior 🥸 Conformity plays a role, as individuals tend to follow the crowd to fit in, even if it goes against their values 😶‍🌫️ De-individuation leads to a loss of self-awareness and personal responsibility, making people more impulsive 👥 Peer pressure pushes individuals to act in line with the group, and a lack of authority can lead to chaotic behavior due to the absence of guidance or oversight 🗣️ These factors together make individuals more likely to engage in behavior they wouldn't consider on their own 🧍 How can we prevent mob mentality? We can do a few things! * Maintaining critical thinking and self-awareness 🤔💭 * Resisting peer pressure 🗣️❌ * Staying true to personal values 🙌 * Encouraging empathy 💙 How can we foster a culture of respect and tolerance?  Fostering a culture of respect and tolerance begins with promoting open dialogue, empathy, and understanding across different groups 🗣️💭 Encouraging individuals to actively listen to one another, rather than reacting impulsively or judgmentally, can help bridge divides 🗣️💙 Education is key—teaching people about diversity, inclusion, and the value of differing perspectives from an early age can lay the foundation for a more tolerant society 📚 Creating environments where respectful disagreement is welcomed, and conflict resolution skills are prioritized, can prevent the escalation of tensions and the formation of harmful group dynamics like mob mentality 🧑‍🤝‍🧑💙 Useful Links 🦺 Inclusivity [https://www.7cups.com/forum/groupmod/General_2446/Inclusivity_372024/] Say No to Cliques! [https://www.7cups.com/forum/listenerjourney/ListenerChatroomsInformation_2144/ListenerChatroomsSayNotoCliques_279957/]
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Feedback & Reviews
I considered meeting them to be one of the best day of my life. Their none-judgemental presence, everlasting patience, truly make them sparks 🥹
She's really nice
Rivkahh, again where do I start T-T you have been there for me for such a long time now and from the start you have given me a space to share and to be vulnerable. I really appreciate the time you put into listening and providing me a safe space. You have supported me in hard times and listened to my story without judgement and so much care. It really means alot 🌚🌞
Always kind and genuine
So understanding and is genuinely such a kind person
Rebekah has been supporting me for a while now and really makes me feel listened to and supported, they are a great listener who really shows they care
Honestly the most amazing listener I’ve had so far she always asks the best questions and knows what to say!
Rebekahhh 🌞 where do I start, you have been absolutely amazing since the day we met. Whether it was me asking you cups related questions, or just a casual fun chat or a support chat you were there a 100% to listen and be supportive in all ways possible. I love talking to you and you have given me a non judgemental and safe space to vent when I desperately needed one and made sure I didn't feel like I was a bother to you. Offering me this space really means a lot to me and I hope you know how amazing you are 🌞🌚
Very helpful Nice to work for.
Rebekah is an awesome listener. Thank you for everything.
Rebekah, where do I start. She is a very very kind loving person and the way she talks is like getting warm hugs when you need them. She always speaks with lots of respect and treats everyone with dignity. 😃
Rebekah is more amazing! Rebekah made the chat way better than i expected and helped me feel better
super gute zuhörerin 🙏🏼
A great caring understanding listener. Really cared about my situation
A really friendly person, made me feel comfortable talking about my situation. Glad I have had the chance to have this chat
Really amazing caring person and listener. Understood listened acknowledged cared I had to say
really good listener, asked open-ended questions
Loveliest kindest listener there is,her help and support has helped me so so much and more than you will ever know. Thank you so much
We are still talking but so far it's very pleasant conversation. I'm finding her support very helpful
she is such a good listener. she deserves all the love in this world
She listens to you very calmy.
Thanks for such an amazing chat! I feel so much better being able to vent to you and rant. Please keep being an amazing listener and helping so many people. I truly thank you
Love this girl ????
is able to understand what i am trying to say
Great at listening and empathising and know show to help.
You were a good listener:)
Listens and understands how i feel and tries to help.. it was a wonderful chat
Really helpful and very empathetic
Definitely has made you feel better.
Rebekah is an excellent listener! Accepting and understanding. I would highly recommend her.
Rebekah is a very caring, and loving person, I can go on and on, about how amazing Rebekah is, Rebekah is a good leader and listener!💙🧐
Was understanding and non judgemental. Very patient, would try her best to understand you.
fast responses !!! such a good listener and such a polite person
Rebekah is an absolutely amazing listener. I felt understood and like my voice was actually being heard. I very much recommend them and would love to come back again anytime I need to talk. Keep up the fantastic work❤
Quick to respond and kind
Rebekah is an incredible listener!! She’s fast to respond on she always calms me down and is really comforting. Thank you so much for all the help you have given me and that you are always there for me x
So far, RebekahRebel is great in all ways. Great listener and talker.
omg, actually the best listener!!! so kind & wholesome, made me feel good about myself constantly.
rebekah really validated my feelings; i felt as though she truly understood my situation and wasn't trying to fake any sympathy for me. she is truly a fantastic listener and person overall
Loved it! Awesome chat!
First time trying the app. Felt good to vent to someone that would just sit there and listen. :) Thank you
she is really helpful and makes you feel loved and not alone. she makes it very clear that she cannot give you advice but does her best to help you anyways
She cares about others safety and makes people feel good!
She is so kind and she helped me a lot
So far, very good listener, helpful, empathetic, understanding and compassionate. Just what I needed.
Very very great listener! Very polite! Amazing human being right here! You will feel comfortable to spill all of your blood sweat and tears into this chat!
She's so sweet, and so understanding. Rebakah gives you enough space to talk and makes you feel understood. SO glad we got to talk. You're a beautiful person, thank you Rebekah :)
An amazing listener. Had a great friendly approach, understood me and made me feel better.
she listened to me and made me feel comfotable
They're really nice and I'm having fun talking to them. I feel a bit better already.
Great listener. Feels like someone actually listens.
She's so kind and compassionate. She's eloquent without actually talking a lot. She responds quickly. And she makes us feel heard and understood. Thank you. :)
she is very very very friendly and compassionate :3 i love her and the way she always says stuff that calms me down. rebekaah is just an awesome person and i am so happy i met her here ♥
They were an excellent listener and helped loads in making me feel better.
Extremely supportive, kind & unique my 1st and best favorite listener.
Thank you for being there for me!
Really great person to talk to
i love talking to her
It was great and the helped me see from another perspective
They were really quick at responding and genuinely listened to me, would recommend :)
Very sweet and kind person. Really good to talk to
Really nice, but it's a pity that advices can't be given.
Awesome good and awesome
I feel better, really sweet person
I liked it helpful chat
Very compassionate and understanding, I've never come across a better listener on 7cups!
She's an amazing listener, and Rebekah isn't just great at listening. She also comes with great responses, and is generally really easy to talk to :)
As a new member to 7 Cups, I was worried about so many things; What if my listener doesn't help? These worries were soon gone after only a few minutes talking to RebekahRebel. They were understanding and I was able to talk about so many things that I thought I never could before. Definitely recommend.
she was a really good listener!
She was good and supported me for the little time I was with her. I felt much better after the chat.
She is very patient and understanding I would recommend her to anyone who doesn't like to be judged!
She was really sweet, helped to calm down.
Pretty great. Understands situations.
such a nice girl is helping me so much already 💗
She's so nice and lovely to speak to, made me feel happier within minutes of speaking to her, we had a lot in common too!
She/He is quite the good listener and was understanding and nice. She listened to even the smallest of details. She really helped me feel way better and helped me with what would have been a night of me crying myself to sleep.
😀its great so far
This listener is absolutely incredible! I felt really comfortable with them and they helped a lot! 10/10 would recommend.
She's so sweet and caring.
I loved talking with her. She is definitley the nicest and most kind listener on the site. She is very understanding. I loved our chat.
Where to begin!? What an awesome person! They are so caring and compassionate and make you feel so comfortable and able to speak freely without fear of judgement. They shared their own experiences to help me understand mine better and they gave me so many compliments i went away from the chat with a huge smile! Best listener ever❤ I hope we can talk again sometime
Lovely: she was an attentive listener, and flexible with the way the conversation was carried out. Felt comparatively relaxed at the end of the conversation from the start, so would recommend! Thanks for your time Rebekah.
Great conversationalist. As a teen, she definitely showed a great amount of respect and I was super comfortable talking to RebekahRebel. Thank you so much for reassuring me! Would definitely recommend to those teens who are suffering as well.
They are one of the best listeners I've had! From the beginning i felt that they are professional-like. And the little details made me feel reassured.
such an amazing person thank you for listening
Very empathetic and understood me
she knows what to say and says so appropriately. most wonderful conversation i've had on 7cups
Rebekah is so empathetic and warm. She’s a great mentor, listener and friend. The only thing I would suggest is for the rest of you—come talk to her! You’ll have a wonderful experience no matter what you’re dealing with.
Great! ❤️🧡💚💙🧡💛❤️💚
Was very nice and listened throughout all of the 1-1
Really cool chat, i felt listened and that's important
She’s really cool! I’ve literally only talked with her for two minutes so
A great listener, provides reassurance and understood my situation even though I did not fully understand it myself. Thank you so much.
she is so helpful :)
She really listened to me and helped me work through my day with less stress
She’s so kind and caring.
Helped alot to have someone listen. Even though my problems might never fully fade they at least helped them because less painful.
She's really great. Listened with no complaints, provided genuine relatable comfort and assurance. I felt a lot better and more calmed down after our talk.
They asked a lot of open-ended questions and provided constant support. They weren't biased and ensured that I felt like I was in a safe place to chat. Gave me a lot of good advice, but didn't make me feel as though it mandatory to take it. Felt like I was talking to a friend.
They're amazing. Great listener.
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