Rebekah Listener Profile

Rebekah

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Number of ratings164 Number of reviews150 Listens toTeens & Over 18 LanguagesEnglish, German, Welsh Listener sinceJul 30, 2019 Last activein last week PathStep 1,883 People helped412 Chats1,693 Group support chats525 Listener group chats614 Forum posts1,495 Forum upvotes2,889

Bio

🌞 Introduction 🌞

Life is hard; we all know it. It's full of positive and negative moments, very few of which we have complete control over. You don't predict the future, the future predicts you. It's great to see that you're reaching out for support today. It may feel incredibly difficult to ask for guidance, be it for a current or a past situation - you are not alone in how you feel.

Members:

I'm currently... available for chats! Please feel free to send me a message, though do make sure that your situation matches with one of the topics listed in my profile.

Listeners:

I'm currently unavailable for all types of mentoring chats. Please refer to another mentor here.

How I Listen:

🌞 I will ensure that you, as a person, are validated. How you feel is perfectly okay.

🌞 Please be aware that I will not be offering advice, as it could be very harmful to both you and your situation, and could cause offence.

🌞 You will suffer no judgement from me.

🌞 Our chat will be as supportive and comforting as possible.

🌞 Finally, I will make sure that you are heard. Your voice deserves to be listened to.

🌻 My Involvements 🌻

🌻 Quality 🌻

o Verified Adult-Teen Listener: I completed an interview and a mock chat with a highly experienced listener to show that I'm suitable to chat with teens, and a listener of high quality.

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o Listener Verifier Team: I verify listeners through the Verified Listener project! Would you like to become Verified? Learn more here!

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o [Teen] Quality Mentoring: I mentor adult and teen listener quality!

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o Quality Mentor Leading: I lead the Safety Patrol Outreach Team. Find out more about this team by sending me a message, or by going here!

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o Quality Ambassador: I am so privileged to be an ambassador for 7 Cups!

🌻 Safety 🌻

o Safety Patrolling: I flag profiles that have violations.

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o Safety Patrol Outreach Team [SPOT] Leader: I co-lead SPOT! On this team, we reach out to those who have fixable profile violations, as well as grade Safety Patrol applications.

🌻 Chat Rooms 🌻

o Doorkeeping: I'm able to open & close chat rooms.

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o Peer Supporting: I offer support to listeners after a difficult chat (*not* for personal issues. That is what member accounts are for).

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o Chat Supporting: I offer support to listeners during a tricky chat.

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o Global Chatroom Moderation: I help to create a positive and inclusive environment in all member chat rooms!

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o [Teen] Chatroom Mentor: I moderate in the listener chat rooms to ensure they stay safe and inclusive!

🧁 About Me 🧁

🧁 I love video gaming, specifically The Sims 4 and Resident Evil.

🧁 I love Doctor Who (10th Doctor is my favourite)!

🧁 I am once again questioning my sexuality, and I don't mind what pronouns you use! 🌈💙

🧁 My favourite music genres are classic rock, heavy metal, 70s/80s pop/rock, punk rock, and indie/alternative.

🧁 I am currently dealing with obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) and complex-post traumatic stress disorder (c-PTSD).

🧁 My favourite artists are; My Chemical Romance // Lady Gaga // Green Day // Joji // Studio Killers // Melanie Martinez

✨ VIPs ✨

@bouncySalamander26; Sal is a joy. He's funny, kind, a fantastic friend. Thank you, for always being awesome! P.S. "snoozy sponge!"

@Gracey; I will never be able to thank Grace enough for her kindness and support over the years. She is sweet, understanding, patient, and always knows how to help out. Thank you, for always being a good friend 💙

@Tazzie; I miss you. You were an amazing listener, a dedicated leader, and an outstanding person. Thank you, for always believing in me. Rest eternally in peace 🕯️

#Sun4Lyf 💙

Recent forum posts

Receiving Feedback with a Learning Mindset

IDG 7 Cups Community Hub / by Rebekah

February 9th

Integrity: A Scenario

IDG 7 Cups Community Hub / by Rebekah

February 21st

My Experiences with Offsite Contact

Safety & Knowledge at 7 Cups / by Rebekah

April 8th

...See more Hello, everyone! I hope you’re doing well, and that you’re having a great day 🌞 This post hasn’t been an easy one for me to write, because it has so many negative feelings associated with it; shame, anxiety, embarrassment, even a little bit of fear. But, with a lot of encouragement, I’ve decided that it’s best to share with you all my personal experiences with offsite contact, both via 7 Cups and off 7 Cups. Yes, you read that correctly. Back when I was a young teen listener (I’d been a listener for no more than 2-3 months), I connected offsite with a member. It was very, very stupid, and quite frankly, it was downright dangerous. Not to mention against the rules! This isn’t my only experience with offsite contact/dangerous activity online generally, and I will get to this very soon. I know what you may be thinking. I’m a safety leader - an ambassador, nonetheless - and I broke one of the most important rules relating to safety. I’ve thought about this a lot (with help from others), and I’ve come to the conclusion that my previous actions have influenced me to care so much about safety. I have lived through what could happen as a result of offsite contact, and that is why I can be so pugnacious when it comes to the safety of users, especially teens. I am not my past mistakes. Written below are my experiences with offsite contact and dangerous actions online. 7 Cups I had no idea of the rules regarding offsite contact. I didn’t know that it was prohibited (even though I have more than 1 brain cell, so it should have been obvious). Thankfully, I was safe during this interaction (as was the member), but other users have definitely not been as fortunate. As soon as I was made aware of the rules, I removed the user from my social media, and sent them a message on 7 Cups stating that it was highly inappropriate of me to engage in offsite contact with them, and that it was best for all communication to be had on the site. I had no intention of breaking any rules. Back when I used to have profile pictures of art that I had drawn, one member was able to find me on a site where you can write stories. As soon as I noticed the connection, I removed all followers who I did not personally know and changed the username/profile pictures, both on that site and on 7 Cups. Even if you don’t share offsite contact explicitly, some users may find you because of similar usernames or profile pictures. You may trust a person you meet online. You may really like their personality, and click with them in so many ways. You may feel like they’re a friend. Your friend. They may feel the same way, and they may even actually be the person you think they are. But so many things are possible when we share our details. For example; * The person could be dangerous * The person could be looking to harm you * The person could attempt to blackmail you * The person could attempt to locate you/invade your privacy * The person could be ‘catfishing’ you, i.e., pretending to be someone and acting as this person, sometimes with or without photos, only to be completely different Yes, we make friends on the site, and that’s great! But that’s where it needs to end -- the site. It should not ever, ever go any further than chatting in the rooms (or PMs, if with a listener), because it can be (and is) dangerous. People aren’t always who they say they are online; I know this from my own personal experiences, which are detailed below. Games I remember being a very small Rebekah, I think I was around 7 or 8 years old. Still using my brother’s 1990s acorn computer, I started playing a game (which I won’t name). It was aimed for children 6+ (though anyone could play it, feasibly). I remember another user asked me for my name and where I lived. They told me they lived just a few miles away from my very small Welsh town (exceptionally unlikely), and that their name was very similar to mine. This made my small child brain happy -- this user then asked if I wanted to marry him, and what did I say? I said, “no, thank you, because I want to change my surname when I get married.” This is such an innocent, childlike thing to say, exactly because I was a child! This user was clearly an older person looking to cause harm to me. It’s terrifying when you really think about it. In the same game, when I was older, I connected with a user on Skype. We had a video call, and they refused to show their face or speak into the phone. This is a major red flag that I couldn’t see as a young 13-14 bambino. He told me to find some alcohol in my house, and to drink it. He took a screenshot of me doing this, and said he was going to post it on his social media. I don’t think he did this, but I will never know. He asked me lots of personal questions that I don’t quite remember. I can only see how blatantly predatory this is now that I am an adult. In a different game, I made friends with someone who eventually started to beg me to come and live with them in their country. I was no more than 8. I asked them to stop, and they wouldn’t, so I told my mum what was happening. She told me to block them and to come off the game, which I did. Games are fun, and we can make friends on them. But, they need to stay as game-friends. Just like how 7 Cups friends need to stay as 7 Cups-friends. Social Media When I was 11, I created an account on a popular social media platform. I was obsessed with Monster High, particularly one of the characters. I would follow any and all accounts that were related to this character, and that involved one that was something like, “charactername_official”. The ‘official’ part to me made me think, ooooooo, they must like the character as much as me! So, I ‘followed’ them. What came after this was nothing short of completely predatory behaviour, that I only realised when I was around 17 or 18. I don't remember how old they said they were (they were definitely over the age of 18). They told me they lived in a spacious flat in Florida, and mapped out their location to me, with a red line going from where he lived to my country. He told me that I should come and visit him at some point. He sent me a photo that he said was himself, but I now know that it 100% was not. It was heavily pixelated and looked like a model. Even if it was him, the picture he had sent me was inappropriate as it was a shirtless photo. I’ve tried searching for the photo on Google, but I’ve not found it. That random man had/has pictures of 11 year old me, and that’s absolutely terrifying. Conclusion and Key Points Here are the key points from this post; * Sharing your details online is not safe, under any circumstances * People are not who they say are * You are NOT your past mistakes * Photos are never completely erased from cyberspace * If you are catfished, targeted by older people, or hurt in any sort of way, it is NOT your fault * Learning is growing, and growing is important so that we can be the best version of ourselves * If you meet someone on 7 Cups, STAY on 7 Cups I’ve made mistakes, and I have learned from them. I am the best version of myself. It’s okay to make mistakes -- this is something that I have been taught from a young age, but only really began to understand recently. If there’s only one thing I want to make known from this post, it’s this: if you are currently in contact with someone offsite, please remove them. I know it sounds mean or even unfair, but please, listen to/read everything I’ve said and really think about it. Not only is it against the rules, it can impede your safety. I’d like to give a special thank you to @Heather225, who has encouraged me to create this post. I wouldn’t have been able to do this without you, and I’m grateful for all that you’ve done, not just for me, but for the greater community. Resources * 7 Cups Community Guidelines [https://www.7cups.com/community-guidelines/] * 7 Cups Teen-Specific Guidelines [https://www.7cups.com/community-guidelines/Teen-Community-Guidelines-3be96c58c238418e8a2584592941d794] * 7 Cups Safety/Reporting Guidelines [https://www.7cups.com/community-guidelines/Safety-Reporting-c97e53621f924398b1db1088c9def307] * ‘Catfishing’ Support [https://www.cybersmile.org/what-we-do/advice-help/catfishing] * Cyberbullying Support [https://www.internetmatters.org/issues/cyberbullying/resources/] * Online Grooming Support [https://www.internetmatters.org/issues/online-grooming/resources/] * Sharing Explicit Material - Don’t Do It! [https://alert-ab.ca/butt-out-creeps/] [PEGI 12 - thank you, @AffyAvo!] * Staying Safe Online Pt. 1 [https://www.bbc.com/ownit/the-basics/8-tips-for-staying-safe-online] * Staying Safe Online Pt. 2 [https://staysafe.org/cyber-safety-tips-for-adults/]

Using the Multiple Accounts Profile Flag

Safety & Knowledge at 7 Cups / by Rebekah

August 9th, 2023

...See more Hi, team! Hope you're doing well 🌞 This is just a brief post for those of us who are unsure of when to use the multiple account flag option on a profile. All important information will be in bold and underlined. As stated in the guide, flagging for multiple accounts does NOT mean flagging an account that you suspect is a multiple account, nor does it mean a person who has openly admitted to having other accounts. For these, we email community@7cups.com, and NOTHING ELSE. Flagging a profile with this option is ONLY to be used for accounts that are clearly multiples of other usernames, such as; * JohnnyTruelove * vaibhavm * JasonBond * JonIGod * JohnOfGod * Nomales * JTruelove * IndianListenersOnly * idonotwantmales * idonotwantfemales * idonotwantindianmen * idonotwantmuslimmen * NaughtyMan * LonelySubmissiveMan * XYZGuyLookingForABC Other clear examples include “tommy98” and “tommy89” next to each other in the general request lineup. This is clearly a multiple account and so can be flagged. If you are ever in doubt, do not flag and please contact Rebekah/tommy or community@7cups.com. Please, DO NOT FLAG SUSPECTED MULTIPLE ACCOUNTS. We only flag accounts that are 100% known to be multiples - examples of these can be found in the universal SP team guide. Click here [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1vBXLvo7gLMewIM1lhnZ2g8MXAnq4sMwxqXgxzTJCDos] for more information, or send me a message. Thank you for reading, and for continuing to keep the site a safe place for all ☺️ *** 🌞 PPC (Primary Points of Contact) 🌞;- Ambassador & Team Lead: Rebekah- ML & Team Lead: tommy- Admin Oversight: EvelyneRose 🌞 Useful Links 🌞;- Would you like to become a Verified Listener? Apply here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1xVRwAc-afFGsFOp4pkJ06FzCig6CW4s4FLzJxpMcALY/viewform?edit_requested=true]!- Interested in joining the Safety Patrol team? (Remember, you must be verified to join.) Apply here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeiPkuyjGZs7x2NY5b1tgkO5QoRRiXzFFobMpHiWthKUxgaKg/viewform]!- If you'd like to become a SPOT member, apply here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSc_sl_D41d4ihTDebx8m_6MFFf0C57_ArzPl1B_5rjev3oIrw/viewform]! (Remember, you must be on Safety Patrol for at least 2 months (1 month for mentors), and further requirements detailed within the application.)

Safety Leaders Across 7 Cups!

Safety & Knowledge at 7 Cups / by Rebekah

July 23rd, 2023

Safety Patrol Outreach Team - FAQ

Safety & Knowledge at 7 Cups / by Rebekah

September 16th, 2022

...See more Hello, all! 🌞 Due to the recent revamp of the Safety Patrol Outreach Team (SPOT), we thought it would be a good idea to create a frequently asked questions (FAQ) post. If you have a question about SPOT that isn't answered in this post, please feel free to ask it in this thread - I will be updating the post with new questions every so often, so keep checking back! Here are the most common questions we receive; 🌞 What does SPOT do? SPOT has 2 branches - outreach and grading. * Outreach Branch: messaging users with minor, fixable profile violations to give them a chance to adhere to site rules before being flagged. * Grading Branch: grading safety patrol applications. 🌞 What's the overall purpose of SPOT? SPOT has an important role within the 7 Cups community. We aim to increase the site's safety by enforcing site rules as diplomatically as possible. Our purpose is to encourage a safe, supportive, and caring environment for every 7 Cups user. If you ever have any kind of safety concern, please do not hesitate to contact @Rebekah, @tommy [https://www.7cups.com/@tommy], @EvelyneRose or @Heather225. We truly care about your 7 Cups experience and we want you to feel as safe as possible. 🌞 Who leads SPOT? Current SPOT leaders are @Rebekah and @tommy [https://www.7cups.com/@tommy]. @EvelyneRose is our admin oversight. 🌞 Who else is on the team? At present, our team members are; @Rebekah, @tommy, @EvelyneRose, @KristenHR, @AuRewolf, @positivePumpkin22, @LightsFromDark, @Lunaire00, and @KindnessMatters2020! 🌞 We are always recruiting. Please consider joining SPOT if you meet the criteria to join! 🌞 What are the requirements to join SPOT? ✔️ Verified Listener (apply here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1xVRwAc-afFGsFOp4pkJ06FzCig6CW4s4FLzJxpMcALY/viewform?edit_requested=true]) ✔️ Member of Safety Patrol for 2+ months* (apply here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeiPkuyjGZs7x2NY5b1tgkO5QoRRiXzFFobMpHiWthKUxgaKg/viewform]) ✔️ Completion of AL1 and AL2 (apply here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1wG5popRr-lrfhUc8AoZh-QTMR5QM0Flp3bJlkVROZr8/viewform] and here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1Soxc6LUlaD95FEVzYm68iD58SprAw3ypmMeDsZ5qS30/viewform], respectively) ✔️ Completion of AL3 and AL4 within 1 month of joining SPOT (apply here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/10I-zOYhAOP8kzPEL9mJG8fqcjusGDOfN_sdctFkvrNI/viewform] and here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1iQij6bcTDa4qoAZVOZaBukkDptqKm3sfXTu2ucN6ToQ/viewform], respectively) *MENTORS can apply after 1 month of being on Safety Patrol. 🌞 What's the difference between Safety Patrol (SP) and SPOT? Safety Patrol members are able to flag profiles that have any kind of profile flag violation, whereas SPOT members are able to either grade SP applications or to message users with profile flag violations to offer a chance to change the issue before flagging. Read here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SafetyKnowledgeat7Cups_181/SafetyPatrolTeam_1685/SafetyPatrolSPandtheSafetyPatrolOutreachTeamSPOT_265908/] for more information! 🌞 Who can I contact with questions about SP/SPOT? Any of the team leaders! 🌞 Who can safety patrol members contact about safety concerns? Any of the team leaders or @Heather225! 🌞 Who can non-safety patrol members contact about safety concerns? As before, any of the team leaders or @Heather225! 🌞 Where can I apply? Right here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSc_sl_D41d4ihTDebx8m_6MFFf0C57_ArzPl1B_5rjev3oIrw/viewform]! 🌞 I'm not a member of SPOT but I'd like to message users and tell them to remove things from their profiles. Can I do this, please? Simply put, no. Messaging users to rectify their profiles is strictly prohibited, unless you are a SPOT - Outreach Branch member. ONLY members of SPOT - Outreach Branch are able to contact users. This is due to team members receiving training specifically for outreaching. Grading Branch team members are also not permitted to outreach users. 🌞 I was messaged by a SPOT member. What should I do? Please act in accordance with the SPOT member's message. If you have a violation on your profile, the best thing to do is to remove it. This will save your profile from being flagged. Should you respond, please be respectful and polite. Abuse toward SPOT members is simply not tolerated. 🌞 Can I be on both branches of SPOT, please? Unfortunately, not at this time. You can only be on the Grading Branch or the Outreach Branch. 🌞🌞🌞 Thank you for reading! As aforementioned, please feel free to comment any questions you may have that were not addressed in this post. 🌞 PPC (Primary Points of Contact) 🌞; - Ambassador & SPOT Leader: Rebekah [https://www.7cups.com/@Rebekah] - ML & SPOT Leader: tommy [https://www.7cups.com/@tommy] - Admin: EvelyneRose [https://www.7cups.com/@evelynerose]

Important Updates on the Safety Patrol Guides! 🚩

Safety & Knowledge at 7 Cups / by Rebekah

January 21st, 2022

Safety Patrol (SP) and the Safety Patrol Outreach Team (SPOT)

Safety & Knowledge at 7 Cups / by Rebekah

January 10th, 2022

...See more Hello all! Rebekah here 🌞 As a co-leader of SPOT, I have noticed that many listeners are confused between the difference between the Safety Patrol team and SPOT (Safety Patrol Outreach Team). So, I thought it would be helpful for there to be a forum post about the 2 teams! SP = Safety Patrol. SPOT = Safety Patrol Outreach Team. SP - Safety Patrol On SP, we flag users who have profile violations. For example, inappropriate usernames, bios and profile pictures. You must be a Verified Listener to join Safety Patrol. Useful links will be included at the end of this post! SPOT - Safety Patrol Outreach Team On SPOT, we outreach users who have fixable profile flag violations, usually ones which fall into grey areas. Only Safety Patrol members can join SPOT, and you must have been on the SP team for 2 months prior to applying. Mentors, you can join after 1 month. Summary of Teams SP and SPOT are clearly related, but they are two separate teams. Members of SP are not able to send messages to users with profile violations, only SPOT team members can do this! 🌞 I hope this post is useful to those who are unsure of what the difference is between SP and SPOT! PPC (Primary Points of Contact); - Ambassador & SPOT Leader: Rebekah [https://www.7cups.com/@Rebekah] - ML & SPOT Leader: tommy [https://www.7cups.com/@tommy] - Admin: EvelyneRose [https://www.7cups.com/@evelynerose] - Community Manager: Heather225 [https://www.7cups.com/@heather225] Useful Links; - Would you like to become a Verified Listener? Apply here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1xVRwAc-afFGsFOp4pkJ06FzCig6CW4s4FLzJxpMcALY/viewform?edit_requested=true]! - Interested in joining the Safety Patrol team? (Remember, you must be verified to join) Apply here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeiPkuyjGZs7x2NY5b1tgkO5QoRRiXzFFobMpHiWthKUxgaKg/viewform]! - If you'd like to become a SPOT member, apply here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSc_sl_D41d4ihTDebx8m_6MFFf0C57_ArzPl1B_5rjev3oIrw/viewform]! (Remember, you must be on Safety Patrol for at least 2 months (1 month for mentors), and further requirements detailed within the application.)

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Feedback & Reviews

Rebekahhh 🌞 where do I start, you have been absolutely amazing since the day we met. Whether it was me asking you cups related questions, or just a casual fun chat or a support chat you were there a 100% to listen and be supportive in all ways possible. I love talking to you and you have given me a non judgemental and safe space to vent when I desperately needed one and made sure I didn't feel like I was a bother to you. Offering me this space really means a lot to me and I hope you know how amazing you are 🌞🌚

Very helpful Nice to work for.

Rebekah is an awesome listener. Thank you for everything.

Rebekah, where do I start. She is a very very kind loving person and the way she talks is like getting warm hugs when you need them. She always speaks with lots of respect and treats everyone with dignity. 😃

Rebekah is more amazing! Rebekah made the chat way better than i expected and helped me feel better

super gute zuhörerin 🙏🏼

A great caring understanding listener. Really cared about my situation

A really friendly person, made me feel comfortable talking about my situation. Glad I have had the chance to have this chat

Really amazing caring person and listener. Understood listened acknowledged cared I had to say

really good listener, asked open-ended questions

Loveliest kindest listener there is,her help and support has helped me so so much and more than you will ever know. Thank you so much

We are still talking but so far it's very pleasant conversation. I'm finding her support very helpful

she is such a good listener. she deserves all the love in this world

She listens to you very calmy.

Thanks for such an amazing chat! I feel so much better being able to vent to you and rant. Please keep being an amazing listener and helping so many people. I truly thank you

Love this girl ????

is able to understand what i am trying to say

Great at listening and empathising and know show to help.

You were a good listener:)

Listens and understands how i feel and tries to help.. it was a wonderful chat

Really helpful and very empathetic

Definitely has made you feel better.

Rebekah is an excellent listener! Accepting and understanding. I would highly recommend her.

Rebekah is a very caring, and loving person, I can go on and on, about how amazing Rebekah is, Rebekah is a good leader and listener!💙🧐

Was understanding and non judgemental. Very patient, would try her best to understand you.

fast responses !!! such a good listener and such a polite person

Rebekah is an absolutely amazing listener. I felt understood and like my voice was actually being heard. I very much recommend them and would love to come back again anytime I need to talk. Keep up the fantastic work❤

Quick to respond and kind

Rebekah is an incredible listener!! She’s fast to respond on she always calms me down and is really comforting. Thank you so much for all the help you have given me and that you are always there for me x

So far, RebekahRebel is great in all ways. Great listener and talker.

omg, actually the best listener!!! so kind & wholesome, made me feel good about myself constantly.

rebekah really validated my feelings; i felt as though she truly understood my situation and wasn't trying to fake any sympathy for me. she is truly a fantastic listener and person overall

Loved it! Awesome chat!

First time trying the app. Felt good to vent to someone that would just sit there and listen. :) Thank you

she is really helpful and makes you feel loved and not alone. she makes it very clear that she cannot give you advice but does her best to help you anyways

She cares about others safety and makes people feel good!

She is so kind and she helped me a lot

So far, very good listener, helpful, empathetic, understanding and compassionate. Just what I needed.

Very very great listener! Very polite! Amazing human being right here! You will feel comfortable to spill all of your blood sweat and tears into this chat!

She's so sweet, and so understanding. Rebakah gives you enough space to talk and makes you feel understood. SO glad we got to talk. You're a beautiful person, thank you Rebekah :)

An amazing listener. Had a great friendly approach, understood me and made me feel better.

she listened to me and made me feel comfotable

They're really nice and I'm having fun talking to them. I feel a bit better already.

Great listener. Feels like someone actually listens.

She's so kind and compassionate. She's eloquent without actually talking a lot. She responds quickly. And she makes us feel heard and understood. Thank you. :)

she is very very very friendly and compassionate :3 i love her and the way she always says stuff that calms me down. rebekaah is just an awesome person and i am so happy i met her here ♥

They were an excellent listener and helped loads in making me feel better.

Extremely supportive, kind & unique my 1st and best favorite listener.

Thank you for being there for me!

Really great person to talk to

i love talking to her

It was great and the helped me see from another perspective

They were really quick at responding and genuinely listened to me, would recommend :)

Very sweet and kind person. Really good to talk to

Really nice, but it's a pity that advices can't be given.

Awesome good and awesome

I feel better, really sweet person

I liked it helpful chat

Very compassionate and understanding, I've never come across a better listener on 7cups!

She's an amazing listener, and Rebekah isn't just great at listening. She also comes with great responses, and is generally really easy to talk to :)

As a new member to 7 Cups, I was worried about so many things; What if my listener doesn't help? These worries were soon gone after only a few minutes talking to RebekahRebel. They were understanding and I was able to talk about so many things that I thought I never could before. Definitely recommend.

she was a really good listener!

She was good and supported me for the little time I was with her. I felt much better after the chat.

She is very patient and understanding I would recommend her to anyone who doesn't like to be judged!

She was really sweet, helped to calm down.

Pretty great. Understands situations.

such a nice girl is helping me so much already 💗

She's so nice and lovely to speak to, made me feel happier within minutes of speaking to her, we had a lot in common too!

She/He is quite the good listener and was understanding and nice. She listened to even the smallest of details. She really helped me feel way better and helped me with what would have been a night of me crying myself to sleep.

😀its great so far

This listener is absolutely incredible! I felt really comfortable with them and they helped a lot! 10/10 would recommend.

She's so sweet and caring.

I loved talking with her. She is definitley the nicest and most kind listener on the site. She is very understanding. I loved our chat.

Where to begin!? What an awesome person! They are so caring and compassionate and make you feel so comfortable and able to speak freely without fear of judgement. They shared their own experiences to help me understand mine better and they gave me so many compliments i went away from the chat with a huge smile! Best listener ever❤ I hope we can talk again sometime

Lovely: she was an attentive listener, and flexible with the way the conversation was carried out. Felt comparatively relaxed at the end of the conversation from the start, so would recommend! Thanks for your time Rebekah.

Great conversationalist. As a teen, she definitely showed a great amount of respect and I was super comfortable talking to RebekahRebel. Thank you so much for reassuring me! Would definitely recommend to those teens who are suffering as well.

They are one of the best listeners I've had! From the beginning i felt that they are professional-like. And the little details made me feel reassured.

such an amazing person thank you for listening

Very empathetic and understood me

she knows what to say and says so appropriately. most wonderful conversation i've had on 7cups

Rebekah is so empathetic and warm. She’s a great mentor, listener and friend. The only thing I would suggest is for the rest of you—come talk to her! You’ll have a wonderful experience no matter what you’re dealing with.

Great! ❤️🧡💚💙🧡💛❤️💚

Was very nice and listened throughout all of the 1-1

Really cool chat, i felt listened and that's important

She’s really cool! I’ve literally only talked with her for two minutes so

A great listener, provides reassurance and understood my situation even though I did not fully understand it myself. Thank you so much.

she is so helpful :)

She really listened to me and helped me work through my day with less stress

She’s so kind and caring.

Helped alot to have someone listen. Even though my problems might never fully fade they at least helped them because less painful.

She's really great. Listened with no complaints, provided genuine relatable comfort and assurance. I felt a lot better and more calmed down after our talk.

They asked a lot of open-ended questions and provided constant support. They weren't biased and ensured that I felt like I was in a safe place to chat. Gave me a lot of good advice, but didn't make me feel as though it mandatory to take it. Felt like I was talking to a friend.

They're amazing. Great listener.

they were really nice and didnt speak like a robot, which is always a plus in my book, and gave good advice! i definitely would reccomend.

It was great! very Caring

they really helped me feel a lot better. my situation is still crappy but they helped me feel like it wasnt the only important thing in the world

Good listener very understanding

they are really nice and understanding

Very helpful and under

Really good at connecting with my problems and making me feel like everything is going to be okay. Amazing person to talk to and listen to!

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