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Redtiger1994
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I lost a friend
Relationship Stress / by Redtiger1994
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 June 8th, 2020
...See more I had a falling out with a close friend recently and its left me devastated. We had met through work and hit it off from there. We quickly became super close, we bonded over our similarities and upbringing. He was very supportive, caring and considerate. He felt like he was the one person who understood me. I finally had someone who I could talk to about my problems. We both we're each others emotional support. He didn't have too many close friends and neither did I. The bond we shared was nothing I had ever experienced. Even after he quit the job, we stayed in touch. We would hang out in person on the weekends at the mall. He got me into an anime and we would have fun talking about it. He would complain how he tried to get one of his other friends into but it never happened. We talk about practically everything, even when we wouldn't say anything it wouldn't be awkward. We would play games together and talk on the phone when we could. He made feel happier after talking with him. Talking to him was the highlight of my dad. One day, I let slip that I liked him as more than a friend. I never meant to tell him but unfortunately it slipped out and his family got wind of it and it was then that he decided to cut me off. I had told him, I was gay and he didn't have an issue with it but after this he cut me off. Ive never been so low, I don't have any drive anymore. I barely eat or sleep, it just doesn't matter to me anymore. Losing him felt like I lost a part of myself.
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