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Relationship Stress / by Rick1colts
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 June 1st
...See more My fiancee and I are going through a rough patch. She ended things about a week ago but has still contacted me a little here and there. Just saying that she is praying for me and very little small talk. I texted her and asked if this is really what she wants and she never texted back for 24 hours and the reply had nothing to do with that question. That silence says a lot to me. Well last night I texted her and said that I have something important that I need to discuss with you, she said okay and now was a good time to come over. I have been in a hotel for going on a month now. It has been torture. So last night I went there and spilled my guts. Telling her that I don’t want this and that I just want to know if there is a sliver of a crack in the door for me to fight for our relationship. I am ready and willing to fight for it. I did not get a true answer m. All I got is I just don’t know if I can get back. I broke her trust and she is struggling with that. There was no infidelity or anything like that. She just just trust what I am telling her that I want out of our relationship. I really cannot read where her answer may lie. I told her I lived her and asked her to give it some thought and she kind of said she would but just kept saying I don’t know if I can get back. She asked me what it would look like if we did get back together and I told her that I wanted a chance to build that trust. To show her I wanted that bond with her, to be her partner through thick and thin. When I left I told her that I would not contact her and bug her. I would let her reach out to me. The problem for me is also worse because I moved to her place from 2 hours away and I don’t really know anyone out here that is not her family or was not her friend first. So I am stuck in a hotel with nothing but my thoughts. I have been seeing a relationship counselor and that has helped but left things also more confusing. As I said I cannot read her at all right now. She has been very vague. It is driving me nuts. I guess I am just looking for some guidance from real people and not a therapist
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