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RobbyDobb22
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Relationship Stress / by RobbyDobb22
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 November 20th, 2019
...See more Hi, so I've been in a relationship with my woman going on 2.5 years. We have just had a Baby boy on 10/1019 who we named Colten. Prior to him coming into our family we had our baby girl Remingtin just one year earlier. Since finding out about her being expectant with colten in Feb of 2019 we havnt been very intimate and as of April we have yet to make love to date. She dont seem to care to much about my needs or wants when it comes to me wanting her in anyway. I mean I'm hurt daily because it's like she dont even think about kissing me in passing at home. We dont cuddle at night or well she dont cuddle I'll cuddle up to her at any point of time. But like when I do shes just there. It's not calming g or relaxing to me cause I want my woman to show interest in me and she rarely does anymore. I get with the pregnancy she may have not wanted to or been to tires or in pain and so forth. As I have 5 kids and 2 with her now I'm not insensitive to that fact. Our relationship early on was full of great love making. She will even say that's so (Intense passionate). But now I'm luck if I get a kiss a day from her and if I do it's me initiating the contact never her anymore. She makes me feel like shes no longer in love with me or interested in affection in a whole. Shes very beautiful!!! I'm madly in love with her and shes who I want to be with for the rest of my life. When I try and talk to her about how I'm feeling it turns into and argument. Basically she tells me its my fault. And for sometime now I've felt like I cant do anything right I her eyes. I'm constantly getting crap from her. Look I'm a man and I love my woman and I want to make love to her. So I've been extra careful about picking and choosing my battles. So I'm always tryn to go that extra mile with her so shes not mad at me about anything. I've been th et ough the stage that she said that sex is all i want. Well it's been 7 months give or take and we haven't made love or had and kind of sexual relationship. I dont cheat and dont have no interest in other woman just her. So how am I a sex addict. I cant even masturbate cause all I think about is her. And that angers me. Any advice on how I can make a change to my current circumstances would be greatly appreciated.
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