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RoxanaNvz
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Number of ratings4 Number of reviews4 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish, Spanish Listener sinceApr 21, 2020 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderFemale PathStep 18 People helped15 Chats31 Group support chats0 Listener group chats0 Forum posts11 Forum upvotes5
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I am a quiet person but I like to help others. I like to play and listen to music. I like to build things. I love supporting others and encouraging them to be the best that they can. One thing that I have learned is to live one day at a time and understand that everything happens for a reason.

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My Happiness Over His
Relationship Stress / by RoxanaNvz
Last post
 April 23rd, 2020
...See more I had a rough relationship for 3 years that we were together. At first he was great, supportive, and all that I could want. But the second half, he would lie to me about how he truly felt, would leave me hanging, and just acted like he was in control of the entire relationship. When we broke up and he was struggling with his depression, I stuck around to help him for an entire year despite what people told me. He would leave and come back and I would receive him with open arms and get hurt every time he would change his mind, because everything was up to him. The second to last time he came back, I told him I couldn't be with him. He became too selfish, too arrogant, and I just didn't see myself with someone like that. Instead of trying to change him, I decided to leave the picture. But he insisted again that I talk to him, and I told him that he was very petty and hypocritical because he would be insulted when I couldn't reply immediately but he would purposely ignore me for days. So he apologized and felt guilty. We talked over the relationship and I questioned if I was doing the right thing. I'm allowing him to do this to me, to control all of this. So I confronted him, and told him that I made my priorities straight and therefore, I need to focus on my life and not the relationship. Since then he hasn't talked to me, so I guess he wanted attention and act like he was more important? But my question is, did I do the right thing, putting my happiness over his?
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Newbie Hub / by RoxanaNvz
Last post
 April 30th, 2020
...See more Hi, I'm Roxana and I'm new to the 7 Cups of Tea community! I'm a quiet person but I have several hobbies (such as playing intruments, building,t drawing) and love to listen and support people.
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So so so helpful and kind and just amazing!!!
She was really helpful and really down to earth
very kind listener
Very helpful very understanding and caring
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